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True that- I have been friends with her for 2 years- don't really want to jeopardize that, I don't think Ill do anything. Plenty of single women out there- good call....kind of sucks though...not sure why
unfortunately it is just normal to grow fond of people we have invested time/emotions with, ever notice how the best friends you have had, over a long period of time, it is like you will forgive them for almost anything and you don't care, you might get pissed off with them, but eventually you are just like ahh fuck it, it's XYZ hes been my friend since we were 5, he was probably just kicked in the balls that day who cares
Yeah- I get ya- just---I don't know, I've always had sort of a low grade crush on her- but for the last year I sort of disqualified her on my own for various reasons and only looked at her as a friend, and now this behavior shift is starting to get more pronounced---something is going on with her. Just seems so strange....the fact that I notice makes me think about her, and then thats when all the thoughts I bury come tumbling back out...and I think she has noticed that I notice...
I got two options:
Run serious boyfriend destroyer and commit to it---which I already kind of half ass do...I use her as a wing/pivot, practice game on her (she knows I'm a PUA and thinks my routines are fun) run the Harmless routine...but to really focus it? No. I haven't yet.
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Go way off the grid- the problem with this is she notices and wants to talk and hang out and such---I'd be fine not talking for a month or more- she however only last 3 or 4 days at the most sometimes less. And then if I keep ignoring her she tells my friends to tell me to pay attention to her. lol She has done that- literally. The fucked up thing about this is- she's started mirroring my behavior- she'll yack my ear off then, once she finally has my attention (which she normally works for) she'll drop it like a hot potato- it's like we're gaming each other! LOL Which is something else she has NEVER done in the two years I've known her.
What a fucking mess.
she has known you for a long time, and already knows what you are like, she already knows if she likes you, and if she does she knows if it is more then the boyfriend, why don't you just tell her how you feel, and tell her it is tough to be around her, then let her know that if she is single you would be interested in seeing her, could never hurt and she will certainly not hate you for being honest, in the end it is totally up to you, there are a ton of ways you could go about this,
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