great forums here wish I would have found it a few weeks ago lol I have been blagging it with an H8/9 and cocked up a bit today. Dont think I had prepped enough before, I posted my dilemma in mid game any help appreciated as I need to recover things in the morning when I see her again, keep up the good work guys

In terms of preparing, remember that becoming a PUA is a process that can take some time. If you're talking about learning routines and games, well, yes, that can definitely help.

Make sure you work on your inner game, which is extremely important, and can help you get out of any situation (or into situations ).

In terms of resources, here's something you may want to read: http://www.bosproject.com/index.php?tid=paulmuk1

If you want a free book: http://www.bosproject.com/joinfree.php?tid=paulmuk1

Hope it helps, and good luck mate.

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Thanks for that Bansario, I have read most of the stuff you said a great help. Today is the day ofter my 1st stumble and I still got no strategy as to what to say to recover things lol, so going to wing it and start a bit of kino to maybe get things in the right direction, I only see her once a week so need either a miracle or a good line or two.

Careful with kino. If done at the wrong time, it could come off as weird. Run some routines like the CUBE. Calibrate and test the waters before getting physical.

If you're going to do kino, do it very subtle first. Small touches here and there, a hug, high five, etc. Nothing sexual at the beginning.

You overall don't need a strategy since you already know this person. What you need is to be FUN. Fun is achieve through confidence, good delivery, and having something to say.

Like i said, if you don't have much time, at least practice a routine or two so you can avoid long silences.

Good luck champ. Trust in yourself.

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Thanks again, didn't get a one to one today with her as I expected just got a couple of mins while she was waiting for another customer (thats the trouble mainly as I feel I don't want to get her in trouble at work monopolising her) even though she seems to spend more time on me than other customers, as I only see her once a week with 5-10 mins chat and its 5 or 6 weeks in I feel I need to make a closer (not kiss close as it wouldn't be appropriate at her work) but coffee date close ie chance to talk more then put stuff into practice, so... as per my post in mid game she discounted the dog walk with the dark forest bit which today she was falling over herself to explain that she was only messing about when she said it, do I mention that she hasnt blown me out for the coffee, and 1/ give her my card and say a day etc , 2/ give her my card saying ring/text me or slide me the card back (ie clear cut situation on the no and chance for her to ring at her own time) or do you have anything slicker? I am not nervous about rejection only getting her introuble at work and getting interepted mid flow by other customers. Which is why a coffee away from work would be the thing. Sorry this drags out but I have never had such an awkward situation to speak to a woman.

First of all, don't over-think this situation. The way I see it is:

1) You already talk
2) She is friendly to you, not as a customer, but as a person
3) There's no reason for you NOT to invite her out for coffee.

Simply do it.

Do not give/take cards. That's way too formal, unless you feel that's the only way of handling things. If you want to take her number at work, and feel writing a number in your cellphone is not appropriate, simply hand her a piece of paper and say:

"Hey, I know this amazing coffee place on_____, I wanna go, and would love if you could meet me there for some laughs and stimulating conversation (smile). How does that sound to you? (keep smile)"
As soon as she answers, say "Great. Here, write down your number and I'll call you later to coordinate. I don't have much time now."

It's not so much about what you say, but how you say it. The attitude you should have is "Going out for Coffee is not a big deal". As a matte of fact, nothing is a big deal.

Relax, be decisive, and stop dragging this interaction. Remove her from the work environment and start running game on her.

Let me know if there's anything else I can do

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