Help me out here. 'Met' this woman online. She's 33, but looks like about an 8.5. I need advice beyond 'just be more alpha' (workin on it yo!). Honestly she is acting 22.

She flakes on our mid-week date an hour and a half before the time. My friends tell me give her one more chance. She wants to reschedule, so I suggest Fri (perhaps a mistake but i knew she'd be available). I tell her to meet me near my place and we'll go from there. She says 'great!'. I'm thinking 'win'.

Now we get closer to the date and she texts me saying she's looking forward to meeting me. Then follows it up with a text with the qualities/parameters of the type of place she wants to go and asks if I have any ideas. I'm fresh out of ideas since she's asking for the impossible (quiet, not too many people, in a big city, on a Friday night).

Perhaps this is why I have never done a first date on a Fri....LOL

Then cook for her. At your place is going to be really quiet (initially ). Seriously, a girl who flakes shouldn't be so picky.

Small/trendy bars should be pretty empty before 8:00-8:30pm. Meet her early enough (after 6 pm of course) and spend some time at that bar. Then leave and see if you can go back to your place. It seems like you know what to do from there.

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man i didn't even think of that. cheers.

biatch is tellin me she is not sure but is thinking 8:30-9 but will 'have a better idea' day of. feel like it's one test after another with this one.

I hate dates(dating is a killer), take her to a walk by the beach, cooking at your house may not be a good strategy( cause you met her online she may get worried), i hope you neg her when she gave you those parameters, i would have said, that is all,woww, anything else your majesty! or some crazy stuff.

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lol skills i did in fact respond almost identical to that! of course she never texted back. i'm starting to notice that one might have to go easy on the negs with the 30+ group....

no, you got a put an lol or a smiley face in a way she knows you are being sarcastic/funny, do not come across as a jerk you game them all the same. Do not overthink, if she was 18-20 same outcome women are women, never over think if you made mistakes or whatever that is giving them to much power, you do not give a fuck even if you do...if you fallow that strategy you will keep them around or they come back... When you start over thinking should i do this, did i do this right, should i text this or that, that is when you fuck up, that is the killer.

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I actually don't mind dates on a Friday night. I had a really good day 2 with a German chick I met here in Germany, however she wasn't has flaky as this chick sounds.

However with this chick, it all sounds like is a shit test, or some other bull shit to see if you can hold up or are you going to fail. I also feel like this isn't a bad thing, its going to make you think about places you know and do proper research for this date, even though it sounds like she's going to flake and bail on you. In any case, I agree with the others. If she's looking to do dinner that late, then just invite her over to your place, cook there, then go out. Also, seed her some. Tell her that you are starting to make a really great meal for her tonight. Talk it up, so the chances of her flaking are lowered. Better yet, just go alpha on her and say, "8:30-9pm, honey I don't eat that late, I have to watch my figure, don't you know calories that late in the night are bad for you?" Or something along those lines.

Good luck to you man!

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