I am a natural i do my own stuff, i put the cat string theory cause by you giving the girl the flower so early in the interaction you are showing too much interest, there is not challenge, or game, i know is a cute little napkin flower but is just not smooth(if you are trying to pick up and someone else, specially newbies trying to do this is just not as effective as everything else) i am not gonna go into a frame war, but what you did the next time, that is game, is ok, no the flower thing, is not game, but is fun and spontaneity.. I do not follow any method, i do my own shit, but game and attraction is game and attraction..
Anyways let me give you an example base on the field: I went to a club, dance with a girl, while dancing escalated to the point, were the girl through my dancing and the sexual tension try to kiss me, of course i act like i want to kiss but do not pull back, then after she sees through action dancing whatever, made out, kept giving a heavy dosis of a combination of dancing, push pull, make out, to the point when she opens her mouth and ask me for my name i go into a fake name vin diesl, she laughts, i say don't tell me your name say give me your hand, then i put it on my left chest and i go say: angelina, maria, susana, then say your name, when she says her name i start shaking my chest like a wrestler (faking heart palpitations), she laughts, i say i got a get back to my friend, but you are fun and have good energy we got a do this again, grab her hand, take her to the bar, give a dollar to the bar tender, and ask for a pen, give it to her without saying a word, and give her a napking, without saying a word, she starts writing her number on the napking(i like to make them work), while she is doing that, then i make that rose that you made and say: "is not much, but is mine, and i do a stupid face

i place her on the cleavage, and they keep it, the next day the text me i still have the flower that was so cute...
I can still do your style, go to a girl with a flower napking and say you drop something or whatever, and get the girl, the point i am making is, IS NOT AS EFFECTIVE AS AN OPENER! Does not mean it can not work, i can go up to a girl and say did you just fart? and fuck that girl, but is not as effective as any other opener...Out!
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