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PostPosted: Wed Sep 28, 2011 5:39 pm 
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ok so since i got into this forum ive had alot more success than i i ever did in the past however i seem to be running into a bit of a snag. it seems as though most girls i meet end up wanting a serious or long term relationship. not a bad thing of course but not what im looking for right now. how can i avoid this?

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Well, you can always be honest to them up front before you start getting into the whole process by saying, "I need to be honest. I'm not looking for a serious relationship right now."

If you give her fluff, she will cling to that.

An honest answer lets her make an informed decision- and allows you to gauge her emotional maturity.

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ok so since i got into this forum ive had alot more success than i i ever did in the past however i seem to be running into a bit of a snag. it seems as though most girls i meet end up wanting a serious or long term relationship. not a bad thing of course but not what im looking for right now. how can i avoid this?

Most girls want a relationship, do what draper suggest i have a routine that i use more elaborated, but is too long to type, but the problem is when you tell them you are not looking for a relationship like draper suggest, they will want you more, which is good i guess. As i keep saying try to be in your game the guy the want to fuck, no the guy they want to date, and then if you want a relationship, easier to work backwards..

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Well Ive tried what don draper, tell them up front and being honest, I’m the kind of guy that just wants to have fun and don’t want to be bound by relationship rules. But in there mind they accepted as a challenge and they really don’t care but after a while they ask more it backfired me twice, girls wanting more that I could give them, wanting more than sex and being exclusive and all that. So skilzz is right they want is relationship, but sometimes being honest is not good enough.


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ok so since i got into this forum ive had alot more success than i i ever did in the past however i seem to be running into a bit of a snag. it seems as though most girls i meet end up wanting a serious or long term relationship. not a bad thing of course but not what im looking for right now. how can i avoid this?
A way of avoiding all this is by making sure they know you're not looking for anything serious. Be clear about it.

You can let them know that you're dating other women and not ready to settle easily. It may actually make them chase you even more, since women always feel they can change men. You could end up getting the "George Clooney effect" :).

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