alright guys ive been gaming this girl from day 1.. we are in the same class that meets twice a week. i talked to her once when she came into class. she was sweaty and breathing hard i said" u alright" she says"yea i ran here". that weekend i go to my friends house and she is there and says "hey he is in my class" ME. i try to act cool acknowledge her and say " oh yea well i g2g ttyl" playing it cool. after that she sat next to me in class and i started gaming HARD. negs sexual jokes, teasing, push pull, some light arm ouching rubbing arms in class (its hard to escalate in a auditorium fukk of college students).

So i go to my friends party and she is there. SO from there i kepp convo with her very brief and start dancing with other girls Flirting making it very obvious and being the life of the party. the next day she sees me in class she tells me im awsome and asked me how drunk i was cus i seemed pretty drunk. i say. "to be honest i wasnt hammered or even drunk i had like 2-3 drinks but i like to have fun and just dont give a fuck, i can have a blast without being hammered" she remarks by saying im awsome.

so i see her hanging out with my friend dusty, jack, devon, and jors. they are all roomates and AFCS. she is originally friends wit jack and these guys are all roomates. she has not hooked up with them and doesnt plan to. at this point she asked for my number in class i gave it to her. then she proceeds to ad me on facebook i accept. she also invited me to dusty's house for a pregame for the club i told her i cudnt. the next week she invites me to her place to pregame i agian told her i had a huge exam the next day.

so my mates and i buy tix to a dj concert and she finds out im going which happens so that she is going with jack. she wants us to ride together and in the end it was better if we all drove in one car so we did. at the concert we are all having a good time and pretty drunk my two mates are off to get girls so im there in the front with lisa and jack. jack at this point is completley in love with her because of his body language. he tells me to get infront of him "because it will create more space for the crowd" he really didnt want lisa next to me. but lise holds my hand while in the air and touches my abdomen and whispers in my ear but her mouth is next my cheek. i would of k-closed but jake was behing me and he drove. we were 2 hours away. I was not gonna be left there.

during the concert my mate was told by jack that if he though lisa was a cool girl because jack thought so. so on the way to the car i told my mate to call the front seat so i can kino with lisa. he calls the fron seat but jack telle him if lisa can have the front seat. my mate says out loud jack wont let me have it lisa says its ok he can have it. i tactically sit in the middle so she is on one side of me. she puts her legs on top of mine. i wanted to hold hands but i though it would be toooooo strong. i know jack was looking through the rearview mirror the entire time.

she offered for us to sleep over if we couldnt drive back home mind you it we got back at 5 am. then jack goes off to offer his place we decline both and leave. she asks for my mates numbers to hang out. HERE IS WHERE IM CONFUSED

during the car ride back we talk about how i qwouldnt for my gf to have all friend guys because i know what guys are like. she goes on to say but as long as she picks you, u r not cool with that. i go on to say idk i never been in that sitation. then she asks me to massage her head. HERE i am thinking to myself.. K CLOSE KCLOSE... but jack was there and i knew he would of stopped the car.

she told me she grew up a tomboy and has some lesbian tendencies because she says guys treated her bad in the past. she has alot of guy friends cus she knows that having female friends include alot of drama. I SWEAR TO GOD I LIKE THIS GIRL ALOT. but it looks im just one of the other dude friends. or becoming one at least. she has told me im fun and awsome which i found as an IOI. she asked for my number which seemed as an IOI but when she asked for my mate's thats ( even though they barley talked and he didnot covey sexual interest in her) i got confused.

we have a big exam coming up in the next couple of days. we were supposed to study together tonite but she said she might today. we will def study tomorrow. we will study and after we are done ima just grab her arm, not too forcefully bring her to the wall and just tell her straight up... something like this...

"alright i had lizzy, u know when ur around a person and feel comletley comfortable and joyful? (w/e her answer is) well yea thats the way i feel about you, now i dont have those feelings much because they are very rare but god damnit you tell me know how u feel about me because if just like me a friend, then u tell me NOW because i dont want to become the dude that never gets the girl (or become like jack, a guy that will go all the way to make sure no one gets it in if he cant). I like you lisa and if you dont like me like that TELL ME now. we can still be friends and it dont have to be awkward in class. but as long as u tell me now i wont invest anymore time in you, we can be friends and you can help me get other girls"

or do u guys have anyother suggestions. i would of escalated earlier but now that i see her IOIs were just as any other dudes im confused. should i go direct like this? she is going to a dance techno concert with her guys friends but i know what they are all thinking. some of her friends have more social proof than me but i guess i gamed hard and she openley tells me that she doesnt find many guys she meets cute.

guys your comments hints and tips ARE GREATLY appreciated. i would li9ke to hear some responses due to the fact that this will happen HOPEFULLY PRAY TO GOD TOMORROW....

PS also me jack and liasa took a picture at the conert that showed up at the website. she cropped jack off and her profile pic is of me and her.. even though jack was there...is this an IOI? THANKS MATES!!!!!

You gotta pull the trigger man.

We keep saying the same stuff, over and over again... Just do it, no amount of game will do any good if you can't dive in...

There's something I always come clear with friends, if I have a target, I'll say it, even if a friend is so deeply in love with her, I'll tell him she's my target. Worse comes to worse, I'll get another friend in and isolate him.

Don't say anything to her, especially don't ask if she likes you, if you ask she'll obviously answer that she likes you as a friend. Take a look at 60s stuff, golden.

At some point during your study session, just ask for a break, take her outside or something, move close, rub her back lightly, hold her by the hips or something, eye stare for a few seconds and dive in. To be honest those would just be guidelines get a feel of how the evening is going, you might want to get her to the kitchen for a glass of water or something

-- Seriously, if you need to get better at this, go out to clubs and do what I call quickgames, find a girl (doesn't matter if she's 10 or 7), approach, few cocky funny lines, no real routines, if she's receptive pull her for drinks (if not, next girl), lean with your back on the wall, move close to her, ask her what drink she likes with your cheek touching hers with your had on her hips, lean back on the bar again with your hand still on hips, tease about choice of drinks, order drinks over shoulder, eye stare 3ish seconds, go back in, whisper slowly in her ear that she's beautiful (not pretty, hot, sexy, fuckable, just beautiful), kiss -- You can do this a few times during one evening, seriously a kiss is nothing to woman, nor is sex for that matter --

Direct is an approach or game type, kissing a girl by force rarely works unless you're like really hot. You need to game the girl, whether it's direct game or indirect, you need to do it to get the shield down. But at some point, you need to go in.

So as we always quote...

"Don't use logic, it'll fail"
"Pull the trigger"
"To get the girl, you gotta risk losing the girl"