Okay I need some newbie advice. A few days ago i met this girl where we i felt we instantly clicked. Ill set out the events day by day:

Day 1: Met this girl through a friend. I went out with them in a bar then club and got on with X really well.

Day 2: Nothing

Day 3: We spoke on facebook and went out together to a bar and spent most of the night together. We talked, kissed, danced, danced with her friends and generally a really good night

Day 4: We texted each other a lot, conversation was strong and smooth. She went out with her friends but i went out with my friends in the pub, so we didnt see eachother

Day 5: I asked her how her night was but her replies were really closed and odd. It was hard to reply without starting a completely new topic of conversation. It was completely different from her the past few days.

Now its day 6, im not sure what to do, any advice what i can text her. Im going out tonight and kinda want to see her again. What type of things can i text her instead of the whole generic "I want to see you come to xxx"?

Any advice i would be so grateful!

You should not reveal how much you need her. That shows lower value.

I think you shouldn't send her anything, perhaps see her by accident, say something like 'how are you, nice to see you, I need to go to my friends'

and leave her. If she wants to follow you later, it's on. If not, you shouldn't crawl to her or you'll lose it.

The key at this point is to stay strong, show that you are there but do not reward her bad behaviour by crawling in front of her.

Yours,

Daddy

My 0.001 cent: What about: "I am going to XY to have some fun, it would be nice to see you again..."

To me this sort of text says directly what you think and also shows that you don't depend on what is she planning, that you go to have fun anyways.

Does it make sense?

Yea I understand both posts. Ill try to find out if she will be at the same place I am through friends, if she is i wont text her. If she isnt ill ask her like RealMe said. That type of texts i completely agree shows her your interested but if shes not there its not going change any plans

it's not an issue with girl. It's an issue with your game. You dont have a game plan. 6 days and u didn fuck her yet?
U must know
how to open
then how to transition
then how to create social comfort
then how to break rapport
then how to create sexual attraction and so on till sex
if you know your game plan u can move quickly from meeting to sex.
Plus having a game plan also gives you an idea about where you stand at with a particular girl and what you need to do next to get to the next stage.
I hope that helps you determine what you must do first

I usually have a game plan but i dont want to fuck this girl, she is far more valuable than that and is girlfriend material

Well think of it like this. Do you want some other guy to have sex with her???

Don't put her on a pedestal

Plus sex isn't the end of a relationship, it's the beginning. As long as you treat her like a girlfriend than having sex with her isn't an issue. it should still be there as a goal you have in mind with girl.

I would suggest you show her your interested and want her and not afraid to lose her. Be more sexual. Invite her over, watch a movie and escalate on her. get her out of a social environment and work on her one on one.

Example: "let's do XYZ together what day is good for you?"

Because what you don't want is to simply be her friend or even worse completely forgotten about, because you were simply to nice and polite. You don't want her to think " yeah his is a really nice guy, but I wouldn't sleep/date him".

Escalation is your weapon when it comes to seduction. You need to learn how to use it.


Good luck brother that's my 2cents.

exactly. Having sex with the girl gets so many things out of the way.

i agree with fin daddy drop it for now see if she calls you after 2-3 days

you wish

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