Ill be honest I only read the game because i wanted to learn how to get with a hot personal trainer ive been using, and now that she has told me via sms that she only sees me as a client i feel like all the ego and confidence I had when thinking I had a chance with her has gone. I guess because i have gotten to know her i feel something for her even though I know she has a stronger reality to me and feels nothing for me.

It anoys me to no end that she will add ppl to facebook who arent her freinds yet wont add me.

Im starting a new perm job on monday which will help to keep me busy but deep down im thinking its like a prison sentence ...ive never met young hot women at work.. there all old men or older women which have an attitude.

I hoesntly think that ill never meet a girl like my personal trainner the last girl i met like her was over 10 years ago.

I should really read the game or some other self help material but finding it hard to motivate my self as the one girl i want does not want me.

Ive been out sarging alot with one guy ive only had one bit of luck when some drunk polish girl took a fancy to me we hugged and kissed for well over a few hours ..im not sure if it was her english was bad or she was drunk but she kept on asking where im from..(about 100 times) evently i said to her im borred and walked off. When i went back to her she said she was phoning her husband.

I want an english girl but sadly there the hardest to get with they have so much social conditiing i swear even if my personal trainner liked me she could not date me because her freinds do not think i was good looking enough.

Perhaps I should come up to london with some of you guys to see how its done as im being to loose all faith lol

im even considering joing the army part time as i dont have any direction in my life

Getting good with women is a really tough learning process. There is just so much you have to learn, and you are gonna mess it up countless amount of time. What you learned from reading the game is very little. But right now, your lucky, there is so much stuff out there. To truly get good with women, you have to go way beyond these Openers, Routines, etc... There a great place to start, but there is just way more.

Also, yeah, I was in your situation. That one girl! Trust me on this, once you start getting better with women, your gonna be in the opposite situation. You will be like, so many to choose from.


Start learning now, in couple of years, you will just laugh at your situation your in right now. You will be hooking up with women without realizing it. It will be one of those things "It just happened" and is the most amazing freaking feeling ever.

Stop caring and start acting. You're whining like a little girl about one girl? Fuck it, the only probable reason you like her is because she's your social superior and acts that way. Go find other chicks, man up and maby one day you can come back for a real man's shot at her. For now it's a lost case. And if you're ugly, do something about it. Wear a shirt, nice shoes, do something with your hair and if you're overweight fix it. As long as you're not a disfigured mutant you can become a goodlooking man.

You in London? How old are you? PM me if you're interested in sarging.

im not in london but not that far im 32 by the way ive pm you.

yeah. It's so much tough learning process. Sometimes you get fucked up with whats right and whats wrong? Some times you get so irritated that you just want to fuck everything and leave. Sometimes you just think you are wasting your time. Sometimes you get strong headache.
Its tough, painfull, you have to face rejections many times. I have faced a lot, and i mean it a lot. The path to mastery is not easy.