Holly, 8-9, 23.

Ok so theres a guy running some major game on me. I love it, even though I know he's bad for me. He's got game! Men that don't are soo boaring. So last night for maybe the first time ever, I just did it. I slept with him.

Problem is me. I can't keep up (bedroom routine is fine). What is it that you men want. How can I entertain him with some routines?? Keep him hot on my tail? Make him like what he hears........

I can get there attention easy enough, no problems getting in to their group & have them (one or more) chase, but it only ever last 5 minutes and then there gone. (No sex is the usual reason, but if they played for a little longer....) How can I get them to play for a while? What lines do chicks say that keep you interested.......

And what are the big no go zones when chatting??

Please Help. Before

A bit unusual to see these kind of questions around here, but everyone in need of advice is always welcome.

Men, most of the time, dont mind chasing a bit as long as they feel they're going somewhere with it. If you play too hard to get, the ones who're not too confident will flake out, and the ones with game, won't give you the time.

Simply be friendly, and attentive, but just don't give out yourself too quick (I can't believe im saying this lol).

In terms of routines...well, women don't really need them. I feel like as long as you show interest in them (not throwing yourself at them), they will keep going after you.

Don't know if any of this helps, but hey, I try lol.

Good luck.

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Yes it helps….. To a degree. I just wish there was a book like The Game for chicks. More research needed. He’s got mein his clutches how do I ensure I will end up winning now that we’ve had sex. Com’on guys lend a hand…….I’m always happy to wing if I’m out and see him run game on a HB!!

I love this site. I’m a girly girl but I only ever really hang out with guys. This can be great to keep mates, when I’m able to point things out that they are doing that maybe could be done differently.

I am amazed at how I love the game and having it run on me . It drives me crazy inside. The question, I guess, is if I do decide to sleep with them I worried that they won’t be interested any more……Game over…….No more entertainment…… This is not something I usually have to deal with as I have had 1itis four times, but now I have decided that it just DON’T WORK. I am not planning to run out and do it every Friday or Saturday….That’s just not me. What I am wanting is to be able to engage with some major gamers and keep them on their toes.

The tricks to men………Please….. more help needed…….

I am interested in knowing what part of his game works so well on you. What is it about him that drives you crazy?

Shoot me a PM if you dont want me jacking your thread haha

I'm sure it is to do with the fact that men that have no game give me nothing to "play with".

I usually have a couple on the chase within their pack. This was no different.

He tracked me down after meeting me once at the guy (AFC) who was my in to the group's birthday night. I never noticed him. A month later I get an add request on FB he adds a message with the add stateing that the AFC had told him to add me. I asked my LJBF AFC and he stated that HG had asked how to get in touch with me. I started chatting with him on FB. He had a good convosation flow with me so I decided to have a look. That Friday I was at AFC house for the usual gathering of people to drink. When HG starts calling. He eventually turns up from the casino with a wing when every1 had left. His wing then left and it was me AFC and HG. At this stage he was looking like a fool and I was sorry I had engaged with him. AFC and HG tried very hard that night to make me pick.......I can't pick at this stage or the fun is over.

He was like a horney 16yr giving me more attention than even I am used to. His hook was "I'm not giving up" To this I thought you and all others that I have passed by have said this and you've got no chance. He had every come back in the book to everything I said. I consider my self quite a smart ass(can sometimes offend).....This was very entertaining.....but AFC can keep up with this too sooo ....nothing special yet. He leaves on Saturday arvo as he had a previous engagement.

At this stage I have put him in the "I want to meet your friends catagory".....in other words dismissed him as an option.

He then proceeded with over the top text (I could be the one")and a phone call in the middle of the night and tells me again that he's not giving up. . . . So I start to think ....maybe he's worth a look if he's being soo persistant (I must admit after the weekend with him I can say I've never had a guy come on so strong)..... Bang hooked.....

So I still play cool.. and make an excuse to go to his house on the Wednesday. When I get there he has a friend with him. His friend leaves. All good. . . . . right?

Nope....He's acts soo dam cool not a bit of interest.......So do I ....But when I left I was soo mad that he had conviced me to look his way and then no attention!!!!
So I send a text..."what was that" .......He tells me that he did nothing wrong he was just chilling out and "I don't know what you expected"

Um hello you've just acted like your soooo into me and now ...NOTHING....This drove me insane because I dont usually look. Twisted my little blond head right round. so we play the text game for a while and I make another excuse to go there....He blows me off.....This drives me more mental. So I give up........the next time he texted me I was there with bells on....last night actually......so this is how I ended up in the clutches of my worst nightmare.......He has turned it such a way that I am being dominated and that is unusual for me. And it turns me on like crazy.........

The problem is I seem to have no control over this attraction to him dominating me and I know this will most likely end in him winning......I am learning.....lol......How on earth do I flip it at this point? Is it even possible to have the upper hand after sex? Or shall I just move onto the next show/ group??......

Unwanted, Uncontrolable Attraction.........

You’re a real head case. I don't know where to begin. You over analyzed the shit outta this. As far as trying to keep him interested my boy put it best when he said he's looking for the one girl that makes him change his ways. Dude can sleep with any girl he wants.

I'm surprised you gave him a look with all those texts and late night calls. I feel like what you saw as persistence most girls will see as desperation and creepiness. Good for you tho giving him a chance. Maybe he really is just a chill dude that sucks at getting a girls attention, took an approach that is almost certain to fail and in actuality isn’t running any game at all. Maybe that’s why you feel like you do.

If your not looking for a relationship and the sex is good just ride it out (lol) till you find someone else

Headcase.......possibly.......over analyse.....definatly......

Now I'm sure we're in a mexican stand off for contact. I'm not texting him....I'll wait. And I'm sure he feels the same.

Nope I'm pretty sure he knows what he's doing. I've had abit of game run on me over the years, and his was great. I believe it was the attention I received in the beggining that has hooked me now. If I know a guys got the potential to give me that kind/level of attention even with friends and competi tors around....then he takes it away, an attention seeker such as myself will go to all lengths to regain that kind of attention.

I think for once I may just take some advice. Relax......not be a tease......and just enjoy the sex........I have always been very carefull not to gain a reputation I don't and have done this by being without sex for years........
I was up at a 2 year drought before last night so that may explain the analising. My house mate is a phsycologist and assures me that sustaining for that long for no real reason wins no points.

I'm just glad to be over 1itis.

I will post an update on the situation when I have one, for you to read if you want to.

make the dude a sandwich and do his laundry and u should be good. that or be a freak. those are the two qualities that will make me keep a girl in my life

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I did the exact same thing on a girl, long time back.

I hate to say this, but he's not gaming you, it may look like game and feel like game, but it's a challenge. To him. He wanted to get you, and he pointed his lasers, tasers, bazookas, ICBMs and everything right on you. And as long as you were resisting his efforts, the determination got even stronger on his end.

Once, he got you. Game over. He's bored, time to move on to the next gig.

It's ugly, it's thoughtless, it's also the truth.

He's just apathetic to your situation. You can have a Mexican Standoff but he's somewhere still planning a new pursuit. 'Cause that's what I would have done too.

I'd suggest you be a bit more careful about guys, from now on. There are players and there are determined opportunists. He was a latter.

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Ok so we got FB last night and there was a major power pull going on heres how it ended.....
Me
Report • 8:54pm
SO when's the footy on?? Is your team playing??

HG
Report • 8:55pm
saturday footy sunday comedy gig thing in the evenin ummm colllingwood vs geelong
so yeah collingwood is playin
Me
Report • 8:55pm
!! Stoked ay??
HG
Report • 8:56pm
yeah bwoiii
Me
Report • 8:56pm
I know how you western'ers love you finals
you me and two blue pills??
HG
Report • 8:58pm
haha one day
i gave me mate one of em so ill be eatin that pill
Me
Report • 8:59pm
haha sweet as.....well have fun with that "one day" hun lol
HG
Report • 9:00pm
haha i will
u play strange games woman
Me
Report • 9:02pm
no game ....... I can do way better than 1 day lol....... very cheeky but.
HG
Report • 9:02pm
lol
cya
Me
Report • 9:03pm
later !!!!
or not
lol
HG
Report • 9:08pm
like i really care

SO I decided I need more practice and did some more reading.

I only checked my phone 10 times today as apposed to 20.....lol....
I knew I had the upper hand after the FB exchange.
So tonight no FB, and behold 7:30 a text......"sup" he says....lol
I actually didn't see it......then another 11:45ish..."what are you up to?"
I havent responded

He's now on the slow rotation....and I'm feeling much less needy .......


I love this site.......I looked at some advice about what men want to.......Not alot I hadn't been accidently practicing for years......

He still makes my blood boil ...but I'm breaking old patterns - KEY......

Problem is I think I addicted to this game now I've been plaing with other guys all day hehe

And as for the cooking and cleaning ....I possess those vital attributes and I know how to please myself so sex is always great .......

Feeling Liberated.........Can't wait to play

Ok sooo i continue

I text him back today and it was major power pulls again....

He gave me. DTF on the 15th of oct??? what the hell is that?

I dont care i have 20 on the chase now and a phone that doesnt tell me whos callin

as for HG that got me (luck guy he is)

He has been deleted from my phone and unfriended from fb....total cut of losses

THE END!

lol, cool story bro

Soooo

You're more trouble then you're worth

The end

Maybe.......

Maybe not.......

Reality......you'll never know sunshine.......



Went on three dates this week bought 1 home ......played the no sex game......you guys just love that......hahahaha

The only thing I know is the only guys that have any respect are the one's I don't sleep with.....

My game works
And I'm sticking with it.......

Famously known as DICK TEASE!

Mwahahaha

Cheeky as all hell......

Step off.....

If you're good at it, guys will stick around for more sex as opposed to losing interest after one night.