hi guys i request your aid on a simple matter
now i am dating this girl on facebook and its a long story ,thing is she if offligne for 6-7 days now i dont care about her but i saw through her update news that she get online but dont show up i have sent a message not needy one but it says u dont want to talk to me fine , now should i completely ignor her or shall i delete her or threaten her maybe ?

If you're serious about the threatening I think you have a mental illness. You've been chatting through fb... That really means jack shit.
Let it rest. By all means: let it rest.

dont delete her and dont text her. Let her stay there stuck. Improve your fb, share the exciting thing that u are doing with fb friends. She may have some personel issue, may be office or home problems blah blah blah. She may text you any time, just make her stuck, hang and confused why is he nt texting?
He gets online bt why no text, did he find another gal?
Wow! He has an exciting life (i told u to share)
will he text me or not?
Whats wrong? He didnt say bye, he didnt got angry , but still no text. I should find out whats going on here.
Hope dat helps

thank you guys for answering it is so cool
now for p-style i dont think this has to do with illness , i am proving that way i dont care that much and i am not needy i am just trying to improve my communication skills with women witch has greatly improved with this girl i turn her from being an arrogant insulting girl into a girl who oblige by my needs and ask my forgivness and you know how just by staying silence when she do something wrong .

khuram: thnx for sharing these ideas i will look into it, as i told you before she is there in fb she doesnt come online in front of me , like she is toying me or testing me or trying to force me to beg for her witch i am familiar with alot thnx guys

You're in an online relationship? End it, go out, and get a real social life. It will be better for you in the end, not gonna lie.

my pleasure buddy. I would not call it a relation. I would call it 'practice' or 'experience'. Test out what i told you and see what u get. Also try the 'jealousy plot line' technique, just make a few more female friends, nd she will know that. It's fb dude!

thnx dz_j for your advice

as for khuram thats exactly what i am thinking just a simple experience for me

Well, if it is just "simple experience", don't come in here and moan and bitch about her. Okay?

Experience comes from making your own corrections on your own mistakes. Learn thyself.

And "online relationship", that was the best joke of the day.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

drapper is completely wrong here about,"dont come here and blah blah" wtf? This is a forum to help guys. And if someone is sharing his experience and asking for help, that is perfectly ok. If not, close this shit and people will go else where asking for help. No problem

don drapper i wont make this worst then it is , this is a dating forum it may be a joke to you dating online i am learning how to interact and face women behavior and i am not taking her seriously u want to see her in real life and i am this close to achieve it , your contribution here is a failure pathetic that is .
oh and btw wise man let me tell u this:

i had a great benefit from this experience , this girl is HB 7/8 she is used to get complimented and ppl hit on her , so she was acting like a bitch like she is superior human being and blabla like refusing to answer my question yelling and stuff , after few conversations she is like begging for my forgiveness and denying her own ideals and thoughts for me just to please me and here is an example:
i gave her my pic and she tagged her's with my name , next thing i ask her politly to remove the pic cuz there is no need for other guys to see her ( small ioi from me and a compliance test) she refused and started yelling and i do watever the fuck i want , while i go for my old dam metal songs chilling out and she is like speak to me where are you , hey!! after that day she is calling me and i am giving no shit about her and then the victory bell rings she sais ok i removed my pic then i force her to ask forgiveness .
some of you will find this rude , but this is what a MAN is ...
again thnx alot khuram pal your like superman saving the day

my pleasure buddy. May be drapper learnt pick before he was born so he didnt need to learn it after getting in the world
i have gone through this shit and i very well know how important it could be to get advice. Sometimes even just a single line or guidess can change many things for you. As long as i am here, i would keep helping you.

byetheway, i am really glad to read about your progress with the girl