Hi,

the last nights got me wondering on how it could be possible to use day or club game and sarging to increase the social circle and also help my single friends to get to know interesting women.

I think the main challenge is that when a girl thinks that I hit on her, and it turns out I just want to be friends, she could be very disappointed because she might think that she is not attractive. And then pull out due to being ashamed/offended or because of feeling rejected.

So how can I bend this whole thing so a valid good non-sexual contact is established where everyone keeps their face AND is happy to have found new interesting people? I know from past experience that I am really not good at this non-sexual stuff with women.

Guys, please don't be offended by this post. I just look for a way to combine LTR, sarging and social circles in a reasonable way. Introducing some of my friends to new nice girls would certainly be an appreciated extra.

Any input welcome![/b]

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well that my friend is easy. If you are going to make a female friend, don't use the attraction techniques, don't hit female attraction switches. Go friends mood
show empathy
show understanding
build comfort
dont do sexual stuff, li8 flirting is ok. Dont spend too much time with that girl.
My simple plan is go out get 8 to 10 numbers, throw out a party or something like that and invite all of them and tell them to bring their friends also. Treat them all the same. Shortly you gonna get a lot of girls. That's exactly what afc adam did. There are even more advanced techniques but i duno at what level you are.
Hope that helps. Feel free to ask any question

Compliment her from the start like all other guys do. And then tell her you wanna be friends without scaring her away. If you're hosting a party or increasing facebook friends, it'd be easier.

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Making friends is easy. Say you're not interested but continue the conversation.

Hey guys,

thanks for the replies! I think it's not THAT easy. I would still like to enter the whole thing in sarging mode to have a decent pickup training - I think that every girl assumes you hit on her when you open her in a club anyway, and going AFC or saying that I'm not interested will make it more likely to get blown out.

But I think you're right - just turning the convo into lots of compliments and sticking to interesting, yet unerotic topics and reducing kino to a minimum would certainly help.

The other complexity - given I manage to establish this contact as a friend - how do I sell an increasing friend area of women to my GF? What would AFC Adam do? :)

The throwing-a-party hint is dope. Thanks for that guys!

@khuram: great info, thanks!
My level...dunno. Never had it measured :) I am in the game for about 10 years + 2 years LTR and can't complain, I usually got what I wanted in the last years, but my involvement with PUA is only a couple of weeks old.

Nuff said, bring on the good stuff, e.g. "advanced techniques"!

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ok so here i am about to go out gaming but before i leave, m gna suggest you a game style that mi8 help u with what u want.
Open as normal and continue gaming as normal but as you reach comfort start framing yourself as a guy who doesnt make any girl g.f so quickly, a guy who wants to get to know the next person b4 he forms a relation, a guy who doesnt jump into relations so quickly. It's all abt conveying a dfrnt identity. Do it in via framing, or in grouding stories if you use mystery method. Got a lot to say but gotto leave 2 i hope u got what i said. Feel free to ask any questions

and if you are concerned about they being attracted to you as a romantic interest.
Here is the solution
create lots of attraction and make them stick to you. Don't get confused, keep reading
there are 3 types of attraction
1.value based attraction (you hit the 8 or whatever u agree with attraction switches)
2.emotional attraction (buying temperature)
3. Sexual attraction ( you hit the sexual attraction switches)
so now what you should do is create attraction and keep gaming but skip the sexual attraction stuff.
kino is must but keep it to minimum level. It's would be a game full of interesting convo, dhv spikes, comfort and connection building but it would lack the sexual stuff (sexual touch, sexual dhv, sexual qualification, sexual eye contact). This would convey all the right things except your being a sexual guy. And the result is, a great, high value, interesting and fun guy who isn't sexual. A fantastic friend, eh?
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Another way to go about it just frame her as a good girl who isn't sexual, who like to make friends. You must be damn gud with framing to do it successfully.
Hope that helps.
Feel free to ask any questions like to make friends. You must be damn gud with framing to do it successfully.
Hope that helps.
Feel free to ask any questions