Hello community,

I've just recently come across the community and am new to the whole thing. But I figured that to learn the fastest I might just throw myself outthere, and so I got HB8 to agree on going on something 'date'ish' with me sometime.

Heres my thoughts:

Since I'm normally pretty shy I haven't dated girls so much I wouldn't know where to take her. Though I think coffee, movies or flicks would be ideal. But that is what everyone does, anyone got something that stands out?

I want to demonstrate value, make an emotional connection, and if everything goes well kiss-close the deal.

As for routines and making kino I've considered ESP, but nothing more than that yet.

Here's some specifics that might help you narrow down the opportunities of routines and such.
HB8 is 18
(Soon to be) PUA is 20
I'm from the big city, she's from the outskirts.

Help is very much appreciated.
Sincerely - Yoga

Date as if she's HB6.

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Another thing is start keno right away with a nice hug and keep keno thrruout. One of the biggest fuckups guys make is not do keno continually and then all of a sudden go for a kiss and wonder why she balked. Cause it's weird! You went from 0 to 60 in a millisecond!

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Thanks though it's pretty basic. I've read a dozen pages of routines and negs, so I pretty much got my conversation arsenal covered.

My main worry at this point is where to take her, I've considered an amusement park, it's a setting where it's easy to get her to smile laugh and feel comfortable, and on top of that my masculinity provides a shelter from the scary roller coasters. Another thought is that it's easy to keep kino throughout the date, holding her hand, or placing my arm around her waist as we walk the park.

What do you guys think?

Ps. Does winning her teddies and such work aswell as it does in the movies? Unlike dating, winning stuff is my natural element

you are disappointing me. Why are you planing just for taking her out and a kiss? To me it sounds as if you don't have a fuck plan. Dude, you want to fuck her or just hang out? If you are interesting enough and she likes you then every place is ok. My advice to you is
take her somewhere near you house, bring her back to your house and just fuck her.

For starters I consider this training. I am new to the whole thing and just getting an 8 to date me is a major accomplishment. I will try to put the theory I've read into practice, and given everything goes well and I get the proper IOI's I will try to f-close the deal, but that is not the main purpose of this 1st date.

My original intentions was to take her to a second date, something more private, dinner at my house or so with a more romantic mood and then rock the house from there.

But first things first, anyone care to comment on my ideas for location of this first date?

well if you still insist on that. Here is the answer
get her to your own house, cook something, even better if she cooks, watch a movie together. Getting her in your makes her comfortable with being in your house with you. And now if you insist going somewhere outside, then take her to three different locations, could be coffe shop, park, art gallery (decide regarding what you and her like) and treat her like your gf all the time

Look at your hobbies, interests and contacts and establish something related to that. You're good at mountainbiking/sailing/hiking...? Make up a comfortable activity related to that, not a challenge, and DHV by being the person with experience.

Build your date plan backwards. Imagine she comes home and her friends ask how the date was. Make sure she can't wait to tell everyone about the interesting new things she learned/saw/experienced. Her friends will ask stuff, and she will automatically see your value a second time when she can answer how you managed/planned/... this and that.

Also bear in mind that if she hates all the things you like and coffee is the only remaining common activity, you can ditch her anyway and go for the next target.

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