I forgot to write my goals in this journal..

GOALS:

- Get laid
- Complete "The 66 Challenge" - Challenge I created in order to push my limits..I must collect 66 phone numbers in one year of Pick Up..
- Become a DJ till next summer so it can be my part-time job.. *I love music, it makes cash, and most important.. DHV spike all the way in to the roof baby*
- Have really good grades to enter a good university

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So I almost finished my body language book.. "The definitive book of body language".. unbelievable.. I learned so much I have to re-read all the pages that I highlighted.. which are almost all the pages in the book I really recommend this to all AFC's or PUA's. So I'm getting prepared for sarging day of tomorrow..I cant wait to try out this body language stuff and see the results.

Also, I have an idea that I would like to create my own club technique/method. Before , I was capable of approaching, building kino and even in some cases.. kiss-closed with no hesitation. The thing is that after I read this PUA stuff.. I have a lot of difficulty in loud clubs and it pisses me off because before I was really good.. anyway I want to lay out the tips/tricks I did before when I was having results (I only have this problem in really noisy clubs.. in bars, I'm good)

#1 When I spotted a target, I was slowly, gradually moved my way near her.. while dancing
#2 Like about one feet away from her.. I would stop and dance with my friend (we were showing that we want to have a good time)
#3 After exactly 1min30-2min of dance between us.. I gave eye contact and now I'm realizing that I was doing a forcing IOI without knowing..
#4 I would see the response
#5 I would just go near her
#6 90% of the time.. the girl just immediately came a little bit near me
#7 Put my hands on her hips and just danced (always grinding - from behind)

When I kiss-closed..

Same steps and after:

#8 I took her hands (if she squezees them back it's big IOI)
#9 If she would take my hands and enjoy it, I would take one of her hand and put it on my leg or a part of my body, while I put one of my hands or both on her thighs
#10 If she accepted this.. now that is a big green light for kiss close.
#11 Take her hand, give her a spin and when she's faced to you.. get really close while dancing and holding INTENSE eye contact
#12 Count: 1,2,3,4.
#13 Lean in for the kiss..
#14 She responds great and you tease the shit out of her.. maybe fuck her for the night

So this is what I was doing.. I have to forget game theory in clubs and just kino escalate. I'm fucking frustrated that I have trouble approaching in clubs man.. but I'm going to work on it and put my self together. I will go out to noisy clubs and create my own methode/technique of DHV's - Negs - and ways to demonstrate power.

PS: I do think that club game has to do a lot with looks, but I'm good looking so..hopefully you'll soon get a nice FR about clubbing game. Unfurtonately, my leg hurts and 2morrow I cant sarge in a noisy nightclub.. I'm going to a bar with T_Rex again.. my wingman.. Hope we do some major damage!! Peace out!!

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Date : 11th september 2011

Members: Valentyn, Gamon, (Mathiew)

Location: Comission des Liqueurs (NOISY NIGHTCLUB)


Allright so before I go in field, I hear that T_Rex can't come.. so I didn't really wanted to go anymore.. but I finally decided to sarge and see where it takes me. I arrive at the place at almost one AM, because of a shit head that told me where the place was and after a lot of walking somebody told me it was in the opposite direction.. fuck!! Anyway, I get in with a VIP pass and see the field. It wasn't bad, but it was really small. So we regroup and I tell Gamon and his friend that we should make turns in approaching. I really wanted to go first so I said to them that they should watch how it's done haha lol.

We're on the dancefloor and I see a girl making eye contact with me, while speaking to her friends.. so I approach

V: Hey.. why are you always looking at me?? (Wtf I was so surprised I had the balls to say that, I didn't even hesitated)
HB: Well.. me and my friends thought you looked like a guy we know from behind
V: Ohhh allright
*Than I said a really stupid thing*
V: I don't know you were making such a weird face.. like who's this guy?
*HAHAHA* I don't know why I said that.. I should'v multiplethread to something like: "Allright come dance with me" or something else...
HB: *Making for real a weird face and looking at me badly* Okkk.........
* I eject * DAMN!

The thing is that there were like 4-5 girls near her.. and they all heard me and saw her reaction so I just got blown and DLV all the way in the eyes of maybe future targets for the night!

It was Gamon's turn to approach, but he waited too much and wasn't making action.. so without saying anything I approach again

V: Omg what happened in that fight? *There was a fight like 5min before I opened*
HB: I don't know!
V: I think a guy pushed a girl or something.. you shouldn't be doing that..
HB: Yeah I agree.. *Stayed for like 5 seconds to see if I was going to say something else, but she looked bored*
HB: See you.. *she walks away*

*Again, I should've multiplethread the subject man... into dance or something else but I learned something!! I can't believe I approached in a noisy nightclub by talking... YES YOU CAN.. even if the music is loud man! You speak into her ear if she says like "What??".. I also learned that there are no openers...you make them on the spot... you need to have some already pre-loaded in your memory, just in case.. but tonight I really saw that girls dont give a shit about what you say when you approach.

With that being said.. I see a red headed girl (I would kill to fuck a redhead in my life they drive me so crazy!!).. the girl was attractive, was cute.. and she was looking at me, giving me IOI's and she was near me without any reason to be there.. even if there was her friend, she looked like she wanted me to engage her. Here is my problem guys...I'm tall, not gigantic, but taller than the majority of girls, but I'm not the most manly-looking, muscle guy that you see. And I know it doesn't even make sense that I'm telling this, but this voice always comes in my head and tells me that she's going to laugh or something, when I have to approach a girl looking very mature or taller than me. I just don't feel alpha, because she was much more mature, she was a little bit taller than me and she wasn't even skinny (not fat at all, but still). But she always looked at me I just couldn't work my way of approaching man.. I felt like shit.. I was worried that she would think that I'm too young or something.. I know it's really stupid.. but it's a problem I have to fix.

Anyway we go out and I speak with a guy.. who is a DJ for 6 years man and we spoke for like 30min... he explained to me a lot of things and he gave me his facebook adress. He invited me next friday to the same club, because he will be spinning and he said to me that I look a nice guy, hard-working who is determined to become a DJ. I was so happy I met this guy!!! Next friday he wants to show me how you spin in a club and what should I practice with, so I'm definately sarging in the same field.

When I go back inside.. it's alrealy late.. (I arrived late also).. a lot of HB's were gone or with guys.. and 2 HB's (one interested me) were the targets of my friends so I didn't approach.

Bottom line: Fuck openers man, you can work your way with anything.. if I opened in a noisy nightclub while speaking and it wasn't even planed or anything, in a bar it's even easier to open because they hear you much better. I'm glad I discovered this, because before I always made Mystery indirect canned gambits/openers. I made errors because I didn't multiplethread after my opener, so I got blown, but it's ok, doesn't bother me. What is bothering me is that I always think I look too young for a more mature girl that's giving me IOI's man. Even in my first field reports, you remember the HB 7.5-8 (21 years old) that approached me by asking my name? I didn't really froze but I was surprised a more mature girl came to me and I messed up a little bit.. well that's my problem.. it's just in my head.. if mature girls weren't interested, they wouldn't be looking at me or even open me.. so I have to get this off my mind. Looking for next sarging day! Peace out!

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Date: 14th september 2011

FIRST MONTH PUA GAMING UPDATE


What up people.. now it's been one month till I took the responsabilty of starting this journey. I have to say.. it's breathtaking.. Last month.. some days before the 7th of august 2011.. I sarged with T_Rex and Gamon.. went to a bar.. and did not open 1 SINGLE SET!!! Not even an ugly girl! Today.. 14th of september... I have approached multiple sets, number closed one girl who's 3 years older than me, builded attraction.. and beginning to really understand the job of PUA..I also messed up in field a lot of times.. but I'm beginning to enjoy it and I'm finding it really amusing.. which is good.. before I used to think being rejected was a nightmare.

Special Shout out to my wingman T_Rex.. we go to the same college.. and I really like the version 2.1 of this guy.. unbelievable how many girls are after him today.. it's been 3 weeks till our session started. He negs a lot.. builds attraction much better.. is much more confident.. same thing as me.. but I think he does it a little better at this moment.

I improved a lot too, in my opinion.. I have some girls running after me.. a lot give me IOI's.. I'm currently waiting for my number close HB to come back from France so I can FC her. Hope you see some FR about that task Also improvements: think much less what people think about me, always trying to exude confidence with body language ( I read a book about it ), I find my self even more attractive in every aspect of my self and I'm also capable of opening without having second thoughts.. which is great!

Currently, there is like 3-4 girls that I don't know that stare the shit out of me when I walk.. one of them is my target and I want to introduce myself to her..great HB!! Really nice legs, long brunette hair, exactly my style

Overall:

There's a HB that "loves me".. that is more than clear to me and to other people..I'm sick of her always wanting to get close to me.. but hey.. it's pre-selection spike and other HB's see that

There's also a HB I started gaming in my philosophy class..

There's also an asian girl that's interested in me lately..she's really cute, small.. but I'm not feeling it for the moment

There's my red headed HB that I number closed

There's my HB that always looks at me with 3-4 of her friends

Approaches: not a lot, but much more than I expected
NC: 1
KC: 0
FC: 0

Basically, I stepped up my level.. but I still have a LOTTTT of work to do..as you see.. I have multiple oppurtunities and my session just started. I also have some good looking traits so it helps me a lot, maybe that's why I get faster results (Do not want to brag, but I definetely think looks give you that edge). Good looking guys can deform the rules of PUA.. and I trully believe that.

Aspects that I need to improve: fear of sexual rejection, sudden hesitation, less fear of approach but it is still there - I have to work on it, go more after what I want

I haven't KC in this journey yet, but I can't wait for it to come.. who knows? maybe this friday?? I'm sarging with T_Rex and Gamon.. you never know. To all AFC's: Believe in your self man! Start taking care of your looks-body language- mindset of your daily activies - be in interaction with your PUA side at all times! And most important.. be FTD - Fresh TO DEATH. Targets are everywhere! First impression is everything!!! Dress nice, wear cologne, go to a hairdresser, go to the gym and you will drastically see improvements in your looks and game results departement! Special shoutout to my favorite MPUA's: Mystery, DJ Fuji and Gambler! Thank you for beginning to teach me a new style of life.. peace out everybody! Tune in for some nice FR!

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Date: 16th of september 2011

Location: La Mouche (NOISY NIGHTCLUB)

Members: Valentyn, T_Rex, Gamon (Eric, Serge, Sarah & Mathieu)


We arrive really late.. (1AM) at this club.. nice place, kind of big. Attrocious night for me.. I didn't do an approach.. I don't know what's got to me.. but it was bad. Although, I discovered my problem. In noisy clubs, I didn't make specific goals of action. I was always going thinking that I'm going to sarge and I don't know maybe do this or do that. In bar game, I set up goals and it worked perfectly. First I started by only approaching.. that was my goal.. I did not have to think about number close, kiss close or anything else because my objective was to open. And when I opened, I completed my task. And in bar game, I made a lot of progress. Therefore, in my next sarging night (again in a noisy nightclub) I'm going to make 5 Forcing IOI's (Gambler's Method) to 5 different targets. Like DJ FUJI said, if you don't put specific goals in a night, you will get nowhere. So I will start by making these forcing IOI's, which are not really approaches, but approach invitations and see where it takes me. I'm really happy I realized this last night.. I don't know how I could'v missed this important piece of information. I was thinking about kiss closing, kino escalatin and all those things when I didn't even approach and it made me freeze. Also, for all the guys out there, if you have success for one night or two.. don't think that you necesseraly became good in the field.. if you read my posts, I already kiss closed 2 girls in the same night a few months ago, and I was approaching targets in clubs when I didn't even knew the seduction community.. and guess what? Look at where I'm now! I'm freezing my balls like shit! It's good to think that your becoming better.. but having some successes doesn't mean you became perfect in that area. Always practice and when you have a success rate of 90% in an area, now that's where you are really good at it. Hope I inspired some of you / made you learn some new things. Also, I'm fucking tired of being a virgin.. my friend Eric made a comment about it yesterday..supposed to be funny but it made me feel like shit to be honest you.. it just puts even more pressure on my shoulders and it made me feel useless. This is not a fun way to laugh at your friends, believe me. Anyway, I'm keeping my head up.. looking forward to next sarging day - friday! Peace out everybody!

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Date: 23 september 2011

Location: La Mouche (NOISY NIGHTCLUB)

Members: Valentyn & T_Rex


Me and T_Rex arrive for the first time really early in a club lol.. at like midnight we were already in. We knew a girl so she presented us to some of her friends (in the range of 6-7, 7.5-maybe an and I forgot all of their names haha lol.. I really suck at this man I don't know why! Anyway, we go on the dancefloor and something that really struck my mind happened. Me and T were dancing and there were 3 big proximity alerts near us.. a set of 3.. a set of 4 behind me and I think a set of 2 to my left.. and they all waited for us to engage. Like really you could easily tell it was proximity.. so basically there was a circle with hot girls around us. But we waited too much.. and opportunities go away when you do that.. we DLV'd ourselves and to catch up.. went to the bar to make some small talk. I told T that we need to encourage each other to approach.. because we're not doing that. After we met some friends and danced with them.. T made his first approach.. so it got me motivated a little bit, but what really helped me is my boy Gamon who was up at 1 AM in the morning texting me about how stupid it is for me to not approach.. he gave me good advice and motivated me.. so when I was alone.. I saw a HB 8.5 (what an ass my friends!!!) gave me a sexy look and directly turned her back to me.

PROXIMITY ALERT!

So I don't know I just got tired of not approaching and I just said to myself: Fuck this shit motherfucker fuck the girl if she doesnt like it fuck her!! (I was swearing like really bad lol) And than.. I just went and took her with confidence. She imediately jumped on me turned around and we started grinding. After like 1 min she started really getting into it and I started kino escalating. First thing I do: grab her hips while she puts her hands on me.. 2nd: I grab her hands.. she takes them and squeezes them really hard (IOI-green light for Kiss Closing).. and that is my routine of KC.. after that usually I give her a spin and kiss her. But I wanted to try something new.. so we danced for a really long time (legs were hurting) and than it became obvious she wanted to kiss..and we were really close almost touching our lips.. when her friend came and draged her away. FUCK MAN!! But I will not put the blame on anyone but me.. I waited much too long. We danced for minimum 15min.. it was like 5 songs or more.. so I had all the time to do it. She shook her ass so good by the way that I had a 3/4 boner so I was pissed that I got cockblocked. So I went to the bathroom to calm down my boner and to thank Gamon for encouraging me.

After, I see T_Rex and he approached one more time to a tall chick (HB 6.5). The tall HB had a friend..so I approach her and she comes to dance with me for like 5 seconds.. and after that she takes her friend and goes away. So I'm like what the marshmellows just happened? T told me than that her friend was too drunk and that he didn't want to dance with her so she got pissed I think and they leaved. Last but not least, T_Rex made a 3rd approach and we didn't do anything afterwards.

It's good for me.. even if I made 2 approaches... it's a lot more than last week! and I'm starting to understand better club game. At least one of my approaches was really hot.. danced like a total slut..and could'v kiss closed one hundred percent, but got cockblocked! Put your hands in the air for the rhime I just made So that's about it.. I'm happy with our performances.. I wanted to make forcing IOI's, but I actually approached which is even better!

Quick Update on the Hot girl who's always looking at me: we started talking in my sports course and it's really good..she always sends me IOI's but I just didn't introduce myself.. stupid thing.. but I will next week!

QUICK TIP FOR ALL OF YOU: Look for PROXIMTY ALERTS all the time!! It is a hardwired gesture and HB's do not have control over it! They are maing a non verbal invitation.. they want you to open.. so fucking open!!!

Peace out PUA's/AFC's!!!

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Talking about Proximity alert...if you have noticed, quality women dancing together always get surrounded by AFC looking at them, like if they were waiting in line or something (That is how AFC's Proximity Alert...don't do that). If your in that situation don't join the AFC circle approach or move to a next set.

On the other hand Quality and energetic man (always smiling) dancing on the dance floor get surrounded with women but instead of looking straight at us, they will be putting their back to us (maybe playing with their hair). That is how Women proximity Alert. Men do it more consciously, for women it's more of an uncounscious move....but still they just wish the quality men would approach them.

To conclude, Proximity alert is indeed the best cue you can have in a night club or in any social situation!

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Aspects of my Game that I have to work on:

- Have less AA (by approaching more and more targets)

- Approach faster (use the 3 second rule)

- Care less what my targets think

- Less Hesitation (comes with practice and with experience)

- Think less when action is needed

- Improve my Kiss Close routine in Noisy Clubs

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Date: 30 september 2011

Location: Chez Serge (BAR)

Members: Valentyn, T_Rex & 2 new wingmen


We set up a meeting with 2 PUA's we met on this forum 1 hour before going in the field. Me and T never met those guys before so we were excited to see them. We arrive at the bar and I just spotted them instantly. They're GREAT guys and really nice. So we discussed some tactics for like 45 min...they're much more advanced than us and I cant wait to learn from them. Finally, we went in the field at Chez Serge where a friend of me and T was celebrating her birthday. We knew a lot of people so we were in a great state of mind, due to our interaction non stop with different people.

I have to give props to those 2 new guys.. they're body language was flawless.. alpha male... great confidence.. even when they approached. Finally! Someone who knows what gaming is man! So me and T introduce them to a ton of our friends and they started gaming them instantly. The sad thing is that the bar sooo crowded with guys.. we just couldn't move. I opened a HB.. she didn't even hear me because of all the people pushing everyone.

So we're talking when a HB 8 steps with her heels on my foot. She looks at me and I give her a face like: Why the fuck did you do that? (looking serious). She looks at me really seriously and than we both smile at the same time. She than said: I'm sorry! It's not my fault! and she turned her head. I should've engaged!! Tell her something like: You know.. it's not nice to walk on other people's feet! I don't know why I didn't tell her that.. I wasn't even having AA. I had 0 AA all night long. Anyway, my new wingmen interact with some HB's.. even T_Rex receives a kiss on his cheecks from two girls and I'm with my friend Eric.

Here's the BIG problem of the night. There's this girl that I always liked.. we fell in love a couple of years ago and it didn't work out because a long story happened. Anyway, she still has something for me, I know it and I have a tons of huge IOI's to confirm that. Bottom line is when I see her.. I just can't not care. It sucks... I think she's really a girl to "wife up".. she's my perfect type! But the thing is.. I'm still young and I want to play the field. And when she's near me I feel really bad for not having her as my girlfriend. I didn't see her for 3 months I think and I completely forgot about her. It took 1 hour to change that. I kino her a lot and one time she even sat with half of her legs on me.. at the end of the night.. I just couldn't help to tell her she's really beautifull. She had a great response.. big smile.. which only drove me more crazy .. I really don't know what to do anymore.. I'm really mind fucked.. I need to talk with someone that really understands me or who at least tries to help me in a good way. Anyway..

My new wingmen number closed some of my friends and another HB I think and the bar was so jam packed we wanted to do some street game. Here's the problem: the streets were empty! Fuck lol! Anyway we still had fun.. I really enjoyed meeting these 2 new guys and I can't wait to sarge with them again!

Peace out!

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Yeah buddy! pretty lame night for us (statistically wise)! But i'm glad we've met these new PUA's in Montreal. They're a lot more advanced then us and have been experimenting gaming for a longer period of time. Anyhow, as soon as I saw these guys their body language was great. I mean as you said Valentyn, as soon as you glimpsed in the cafe, you knew who they were, they had a presence to them. Gaming wise, they were solid, using the good amount of negs and DHV'd well, using fictive stories and games (5 questions). So Shoutout to my boys! It was just great sarging with these guys and seeing them in action!

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Yeah buddy! pretty lame night for us (statistically wise)! But i'm glad we've met these new PUA's in Montreal. They're a lot more advanced then us and have been experimenting gaming for a longer period of time. Anyhow, as soon as I saw these guys their body language was great. I mean as you said Valentyn, as soon as you glimpsed in the cafe, you knew who they were, they had a presence to them. Gaming wise, they were solid, using the good amount of negs and DHV'd well, using fictive stories and games (5 questions). So Shoutout to my boys! It was just great sarging with these guys and seeing them in action!

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Just got a hold of The 60 year challenge e-book! Uneblievable material right there! It's a natural game plan so I think if I combine successfully this method with social dynamics, I think I can become G-O-D or Satan Anyway, the mindset of your sarges days and the way this MPUA thinks is really different from any other method I saw. It also has a section on great sex tips which is like 40 pages! In no other method I witnissed 40 pages of sex escalation and material. There aren't any canned openers or canned things to say so you really learn how to be come an attractive alpha male! I'm writing this down because I want to test it in the next sarging nights and days and see where it takes me and to write down any specific challenges this method recommends to do. If you read this e-book.. you will not regret it! A moderator on this forum even put a field report that got him the easiest lay he ever had, due to the 60 year challenge method. Special shout out to my two new wings, who recommended this method to me and who I cannot wait to go out again to test and push our limits over and over!

Small detail I want to add in my KC routine in clubs. I really believe that if a girl holds your hand really tight while your dancing, you have a big green light to kiss her. The next step is to look for another small IOI, the smalest one possible and than to lean in for the kiss. I did this before without realising and I'm positive it would work 90% of the time. Next time I'm in a club, I will try exactly to do my routine explained in my last field report from #1 to #14, but to be aware of this important element before KC. I really want to find a method that garanties you a KC at least in each set you approach in a club! I will post results and improvements....tune in to find out! Peace out!

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Quick Important UPDATE:

This Saturday.. in exactly 2 days.. I'm having my first date with a girl I picked up. The french red haired girl. I believe it's a date because she suggested that we go alone without me saying anything about that subject. She says she just wants to walk with me because of the beautifull weather and we'll see if we find something interesting to do right there. After our date, maybe who knows if I think she feels me I'm going to try to KC her.. I will post what I did good, what I did wrong and what should I do different, next time with the next girl. (there will be plenty my friends ) I have to say I'm excited and a little bit stressed out because it has been a while since I haven went to a date.. and this time it's with a girl I picked up and who's older than my by 3 years.. so we'll see what can I do from now on I believe I will be in top shape because friday it's sarging night with my 2 new wings and I'll have the momentum from that night to put in saturday. Peace out!

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FIRST DATE

Location: Vieux Port

Hey guys.. just came back from my first real date since I actually joined the community with a girl that I actually picked up in a bar. It went well..but I have a lot to say and a lot to analyze. First of all.. I woke up this morning and started preparing myself really early. I wasn't having any AA at all until 1 hour before our meeting. Anyway.. I started putting my self (at least trying) in this mindset: I'm only going to see a friend.. I want nothing from her. It did work out but once I was in my car, it was still a little there so I decided to use the #1 weapon of each PUA: Talkitave state. I started talking to myself about anything that it was coming into my head and that worked really really well. AA was exactly 0% and when I met her.. I was already in a state of talk so I didn't freeze or stumble into my words. She was really cute.. it was like a month and a half since we met that we didn't see eachother so it was a while.

So she enters my car.. gives me a great smile and we talk for about anything during our whole road to our destination. I multiple threaded very well.. always going from a subject to another and remembering DJ Fuji technique. When she says something... make an interesting comment about it and than ask a different question about that subject. That went well untillll...... we arrive! I forgot MY KEYS in the fucking car man!!! hahahaha wow.. and the thing is.. I never forget my things.. I always take them with me and it's the first time this happens. In my head I'm like: WOW DLV man!! What a perfect timing! But she actually enjoyed it lol she found it funny and to be honest.. she didn't really give a shit. So anyway.. we left my car in the parking lot and went to take a walk together.

It was a beautifull day so that was really nice.. as we were walking.. I realized she was walking a little bit too fast. That pissed the shit out of me.. because even if I tried to slow down my walk (so she can see that I want to walk slower) she just kept going. I didn't feel alpha.. it was like I was following her and not her following me. Anyway.. as we were talking while walking.. I realized how hard it is to keep eye contact when walking. I just couldn't look her in the eyes for more than 4 seconds. I don't know if that walking fast thing was because it was IOD or because she was just stressed that she was with me.

After some walking, we went to a restaurant to eat. Now at that particular time.. when we sat down.. IOI's just kept falling from the sky like rain.. it was one after the other.. playing with her hair..her pupils dilating a lot.. her feet pointing towards me.. body oriented towards me.. no signs of any negative body language.. smiling great. She also went to the bathroom for a quite long time.. so I took it as an IOI because her hair was changed when she came back to our table (thought she pimped herself in the mirror). I was also capable of making eye contact REALLY well.. I just was always staring at her.. and during the meal.. my boy T_Rex texted me some tips.. I imediately started making some triangular gazing.. which helped a lot.. even if it was some kind of difficult. Anyway, We talked while eating and discovered we have a lot of things in common. After we ate.. she told me something that captivated every part of my mind...

HB: Hey... if you want after the restaurant... we can go eat something near my place.. than you could come see my appartement.
V (inside my head): HOLY FUCK! NICE!
V: Oh sure... why shouldn't I?

So we hop in the car and I'm happy.. but than we look at the time.. and she had to be babysitting someone's kid at like 6:30.. it was 5:50.. time flew quickly. FUCK!!!!! We didn't had time.. so anyway.. I drove up in a place where her friend was waiting for her. And while we were waiting for him to arrive.. we sat on a bench. The thing is.. she got up and smoked.. which turned me off completely. Anyway.. when we said goodbye.. I didn't KC her.. her friend was there watching me.. and I don't know.. to be honest with you.. I didn't think it was a good night.. I got mixed signals of IOD's and IOI's. So I hesitated when the kiss came. She did invite me next week to a party with my friend T_Rex.

Finally, It was harder than I thought.. you forget a lot of material when you're in a date. It's hard to see the opportunities.. when to kino or when to neg..when to kiss when not.. so microcalibration needs some improvement. I'm still of proud of me.. maybe it was a great night.. it's just that with my experience I cannot say if it was.. the last time I had a date it's like 2 years ago. I also should'v put in some DHV SPIKES here and there.. I tried to put some pre-selection in her head.. talking about a girl who's into me and asking her opinion.

OVERALL

POSITIVE:

- did perfect eye contact seating down (a lot)
- multiple IOI's
- she invited me to her place
- pushed my comfort zone
- multiplethreaded very well
- body language confident! PERFECT body language I had.. even when a negative action wanted to appear through a gesture.. I was controlling it
- she invited me to a party with my friend (2nd date)

NEGATIVE

- not enough kino
- absence of qualification
- need to improve microcalibration
- forgot the keys in my car
- wasn't always the alpha male
- not enough negs
- difficulty having eye contact when walking

SPECIAL SHOUTOUT TO MY NEW WING WHO FUCK CLOSED YESTERDAY DONT PLAY SOCIETY GAMES WHEN YOU MEET A GIRL.. STRAIGHT TO THE BUSINESS

Going to sarge with him and my other new wing today! Peace out!

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Greatness is never borned

Date: 9 october 2011

Location: Copa Gabana (NOISY NIGHTCLUB - BAR)

Members: Valentyn, Gamon & Mathieu


FIRST KISS CLOSE

So I come in front of this club and I immediately see some ugly HB's.. definitely in the range of 5-6.. so I'm like shit should I get in? Finally, I decided to give it a shot. I enter the place and spot my two wingmen: Gamon & Mathieu. Of course we were looking good all 3 of us near the other guys (in my opinion). There were a lot a lot of AFC's with beer in their hand who were staring at girls dancing. The first 10min... I was disgusted with the targets.. there were way too many night creatures.. black chicks (No hate... I'm not attracted at all to that type).. some grenades here and there.. but there were definately some really hot HB's.

The first hour... I didn't do an approach.. neither did the guys.. and we went to the bathroom. I don't know why but Gamon was looking pissed with me because everytime I said something he was becoming mad. So I said to them.. that we have to approach by following the 3second rule and that the first target we see when we get out of the bathroom.. we MUST approach. Mathieu was really down for it and immediately when we got out.. there was a 2 set dancing. It took us 3 seconds to grab both a different HB. Nice work buddy! I really liked the way he approached.. really directly.. no hesitation. WHY? Because when you follow this fucking rule.. you don't make up scenarios in your head! So anyway.. he had the hoter one.. mine was like a 6.5.... she wasn't the prettiest girl ever.. but hey. You have to let go of your ego. That was a big deal for me.. but I once heard DJ Fuji said that naturals.. dont give a shit about looks.. thats why they get laid so much. AFC's always say the excuse that they want perfect 10's and when they see a perfect 10.. they don't approach. Anyway, we started grinding like a lotttt... for like... 20min?? And I tried as soon as I could my KC routine.

First, she wasn't really in to it, but after I touched her a little bit, she got turned on. I took her hands and she squeezed them back... - My routine for KC! So I said to myself: Allright.. look for another small IOI.. and kiss! She gave me plenty.. and after a while she gave me the biggest green light ever! She exposed her neck to me.. throwing her hair from her face. That shows submission, vulnerability and the willigness to be touched/kissed. It took me 2 seconds to lean in and just french the shit out of her. It felt really good.. even though she wasn't beautifull.. just that feeling of all the practice I'm putting into started to taste like chocolate! After a while she was crazy! She was just always turning her head and she was kissing me non stop. I was starting to sweat.. that's how much we've been dancing and kissing. So here's the thing what I did REALY good. I escalated unbelievably well!!! I changed different positions so I can kino her at any spot on her body. I was also squeezing her thighs and she was getting horny.. you could see it through her IOI's and her facial expressions. Finally, I turned her around and I sait to her that I would be talking to her later and that it was getting hot I had to get some air. She gave me a big smile and I left.

I see my wingmen and we go once again on the dancefloor. Mathieu tells me at my ear that we should approach once again. There was a set of 3 near us. I tell him: Nah man she's not that pretty.. he tells me: Your HB before wasnt pretty man come on! So I said to myself: Wtf? All day.. all night! (Loca people ). He once again approached and me too. Here's the thing! Fuck proximity alert! It's a great cue that assures your opening.. but she wasnt giving me proximity and I really just made kino on her arm and danced with her. She accepted and we danced for fucking half an hour! OMG!!! Legs were hurtingggg!!! I was sweating really bad! I could'v kiss closed but it was disgusting my sweat was turning even me off She moved her ass realllly nice... she was a HB in the range of 7. Hotter than the first one.

So here's the thing! 3 second rule all the way bitches!!!!!! You can spot a girl and wait 10min and still use the 3 second rule. When you decide to approach.. just tell yourself you have 3 seconds to approach. It worked like magic!! Your brain doesn't have the time to make false presumptions.

After that I went to the bar and asked the bartender to give me some water. She said that it costs 4$ so I said never mind. 1 min later.. she comes with a glass of cold water and gives me a smile (IOI??). I smile back and say thank you. She than comes back once again and says to me: Wow you're hot arent you? (another IOI??)(because of sweating). I said: Yeah.. it's so hot in here.

But here's the thing.. I could'v negged or do something because she engaged me. I wanted to say something like: Wow not all bartenders are this nice in most bars ... what I learned lately is that you don't have to always neg.. sometimes... compliments feel really good also. But I didn't thought on the spot.. anyway.. still had a blast. After that, it was 2:15 AM and I receive a text saying that Mathieu got hit and that my wingmen left the club. I got pissed but I was feeling sorry for my boy.. I liked a lot his was of sarging tonight! Before he didn't had the balls to approach and I think he even number closed the second target. I shoud've number closed my first HB .. for the 66 challenge and for growing my social circle. But I didn't Bad choice Valentyn.. you took the easy road

I also recommend people that you learn how to dance! I'm practicing some zumba classes on my ps3.. and I know a little bit of salsa and merengue.. and today a lot of girls were dancing really well. I think I did a great job on the floor.. so I recommend to you that you learn some moves!

OVERALL

You don't have to approach only proximity alerts. You can approach any HB by just making kino on her arm at angle of 45° and make a forcing IOI. Like 60 year challenge said: opening is shit! It's not a skill of seduction. You must spot out the girls that like you or have some interest and than build that attraction up. And because me and all my wings are soooo hot and sexy.. finding girls who are interested it's not a problem for us

Kiss Close Routine Update: Squeezing really hard of the hands is a green light for kiss closing.. it worked out today! Cant wait to test it multiple times and see the results!

I will hook up with any girl that is a 6.5 HB or higher. FUCK the ego man.. I don't want her as my girlfriend.. I just want to have some fun. This is how you gain skill. I trully understand that! It's sad that Dinosaur wasn't with me on my first night of KC since starting the PUA lifestyle.. but hey.. he'll get plenty of tickets to that show

POSITIVE

- first Kiss Close in this journey
- kino escalated perfectly
- approached using the 3 second rule
- let go of my ego
- stayed in set the longest time I could ever had.. even when I wanted to leave

NEGATIVE

- didn't Number Close any of my targets
- didn't Kiss Close my 2nd target (because of sweat)
- didn't approach another set (I wanted at least 3 sets).. but I got CLOCKblocked

Great night! Glad to see results! Let go of your fucking ego! Peace out!

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Greatness is never borned