pua: -games his target-
hb: -talk talk-
pua: -trys to number close-
hb: oh actually let me get your number instead

whats the pua do/say now?
goal being number closing her

tell her to call you so you have her number.

pua: no, give me your number
hb says anything other than her digits
pua: nice chatting you. enjoy your evening.

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Depends.

If you don't care, just ask her to call you from her cell, so that you have her number too.

If you care about being the one who gets to be on top of the number exchange and such petty shit, do what the guy above me said. Walk away.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

I'd say, "Well, you have your reasons not to give out your number, and I have reasons for the same thing. Nice talking to you."

Gotta stay in control - I wouldn't give her the calling initiative

Don't play into anyone's BS games. As mentioned earlier, simply let her go.

Sometimes instead of going for the number, I'll close someone saying:

"so, what's the best way of getting in touch with you? email? phone number? don't tell me facebook, cause that's not going to happen..."

I've gotten a pretty good response from this closer.

Good luck

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"Let me see your phone then". Ask yourself this-why shouldnt you just give her your number when you get hers at the same time? Are you afraid shes gunna learn your number? Like shes not gunna when you txt or call her? so its stupid to not just go for it. All you do is take her phone. Call your phone with hers- bam you got her number and then save your number in her phone as "charles - sexy guy at the bar" or whatever you want to that effect. Thats better than her saving your number as "charles-i dont really remember him since its been a week since we've talked" If she doesnt let you see her phone them leave her. Dont just leave a girl cuz she puts up some resistance- if shes easy to you she'll be easy for all the other guys while your dating.

Well, I never do that.

If she says that it means that she has no intention of calling whatsoever. I always say "Oh, sorry I just trade."

And then eject.

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

bbardot: you just reminded me about porn