hey people i was out last night and i found it quite difficult to play the game,,, i approached a few sets and only had success once,,, success being a long drawn out convo, kino, playing the cube with the girls.

However, i found it quite difficult overall and im just wondering if you find it easy to appraoch and get success or, like me, find it quite hard

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easy going guy trying to get into the PUA world

When you find your true inner game, that's when you don't find it easy or hard. It's really simple.

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"What we're doing is so wrong, and what you're wearing is so right (it's so tight!). But I've never felt better, so I'm going out to get her and I don't care what set of wheels I steal to get there."

Gaming is fun!

But the biggest barriere is YOURSELF! AA is a tough one you have to overcome, not confident enough to neg, neediness,

If you open a set (and you really want to open this set), and you have a good game, the girl is responsive, you will feel great!

Practice makes perfect my friend..the key that is helping me to progress at the moment is eye contact.

Use it everyday.. catching the train, going for lunch etc always try and keep eye contact with hot birds. Always hold the eye contact so she breaks first, this shows two things

1. It shows your confident
2. if she hold contact its an IOI

its helps when you do approach and speak to them and increases sexual tension

thanks for the advice guys, i shall take it on board!

i need the pills bradley cooper takes in his film 'limitless', then id have hb 10's all over me!

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easy going guy trying to get into the PUA world

Here is a sort of metaphor i use to motivate myself sometimes. So the thing is i'm afraid of spiders right. Everytime there is a fucking spider in the house i'm the one that has to kill it because i'm the only man in the house (my dad doesn't live with me anymore) and you know ladies are genetically determined to be scared of any living creatures (lool). So i have to kill these fucking creatures. I usually kill one spider a week and it usually takes me 30 minute per spider ( i know what your thinking what a pussy). But during the last month we have been moving out and i have been seeing more and more of this "charlottes web" shit. I have to kill like 5 spiders a day now. It has become a reflex a sort of muscle intelligence and recognition of this specific situation. It's gone so far, I'm killing these bastards with my own bare hands. So all i'm trying to tell you dudes is kill as many spiders as you can. Smash the fuck out of them. Become insensitive to your hand crushing them on the wall. Let it be part of your Autonomous system, like digesting. Kill alot of them and often. Peace out

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Be as you wish to seem - Socrates

great analogy man. on a side note, where the f%ck did you live where you had to kill spiders so regularly??? jk. i'm very new to all this, been out of the game for like 6 years. before the long-term, completely boring relationship picking up girls came second nature. I've noticed that I'm hesitating in situations where normally I would step up and it'd be easy and it also seems i've kinda lost the natural intuition I used to possess when it came to reading individual girls. I'm really looking forward learning some tools and skills to bring me back to the dude that I was.

Fort Minor "This is ten percent luck,
Twenty percent skill,
Fifteen percent concentrated power of will,
Five percent pleasure,
Fifty percent pain,
And a hundred percent reason to remember the GAME(yes i changed it)!"

This is so fucking true. Only when its real inner game though, not bs. Once you get it dont get cocky and lazy, keep going as hard as before. I fell off the wagon once i started getting decent

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FAIL PROOF PICK UP LINE: excuse my, im sorry to bother you but my father beats me, can i have your number.

I would practice small. Just make small talk with random people when you're waiting for the train, checking out at the grocery store. Every little thing helps. You'll be amazed.

Talk with people as much as possible, get comfortable with speaking to people and get rid of your limiting beliefs and work for your inner-game. Practice a lot and you will see results. Visit http://seduceandattract.blogspot.com/ for more information about dating, inner-game and how to get rid of your limiting beliefs.

easy or hard???
dude hitting on girls is fun, wtf...