K so I added her on fb cuz we went to school together and we had mutual friends and stuff, and since I just read the game at the time this happened I felt all confident and shit about adding chicks on fb and talking to them lol.

So I start talking to her and stuff, and I tell her about this pub thing I go to all the time, and tehres usually a live band playing and then shes like ¨ohh sounds like fun!¨ so i invite her, but then the day of she cancels because she was sick, but she was SOO SORRRY she sent me like 7 texts saying how sorry she was and that she was going to make up for the cancelation by taking me out for lunch/dinner/something to eat.

So me and her are going on sunday somewhere...but the thing is shes insanely cute/hot/smart/ and I feel as if I didnt deserve her So how do I act cool in this situation? How do I not screw up? I know its mostly common sense but urghhh

Relax. Stay confident. Your frame is off. Instead of you not deserving her, shift to she has to prove herself to you. Hot and smart are a good start but there has to be more you want in a girl than that. For starters there are physical connection's(Ex. she is hot, she thinks Im hot), emotional connection's(Ex. We understand each other deeply), intellectual connection's(Ex. she is smart, we have smart conversations), social connection's(Ex. We have lots of mutual friends) and religous connection's(Ex. We share a belief system). Choose three important ones for you. She probably has a few in her head too, you probably have already met a few of those qualities or else why would she met you? Good job. Then get her to prove those qualities or gain those qualities you want. If you think about it like you are you will come across as trying to hard and she will sense that and be more likely to reject you, especially if she is a ten. She gets the I'm not worthy but can you take pity on me and date me behavior all the time, not a great frame to game from. And make sure to have fun with it. She likes you already because you sound like fun and are bringing her into fun situations. So keep up the fun.

Keep your cool, get something like a coke bottle that's just been brought and hold it in your hands so you have something distracting your mind not completely so it looks as if your ignoring her just gives you something else to think about how cold it is in your hands, it also stops you sweating or if it doesn't just blame the coke bottle when it comes down to physical touching like hugging or touching her face to K close her.

Moffy

So you're excited . . . nothing wrong with that. This is a good thing.

Most of the pu muscle flexing crap has more to do with girls you just met. You already know each other. You have mutual friends. Which means she's already talked about you with her friends. And the fact that she's the one who rescheduled the 'date' means she's already heading in the right direction. The amount of interest she has for you so far was gained by her perception of who you are.

Being nervous about a girl . . . thinking of doing the 'right thing' . . .hoping she has interest in you . . . all of these things can be attractive qualities. Stick with this. There is nothing worse than ruining a good thing by falling for the pu cliche' 'Make her work for me' and quizzing her to death. Just have fun . . .

Going sexual:

You do not have to be a dictator asshole to be 'sexual'. Most guys here think that in order to demonstrate sexual attraction and raise her 'temp', you need to be a caveman of sorts, "Me Bongo! I want to fucky fucky!" Perhaps that's one way to do it but I'd say stick with your tendencies. She's attracted to you already for who you are. All you need to do is raise the topic in your way and put it on the table.

From what you write, I get a sense that this sort of thing suits you better:

"I usually don't kiss on the first date . . . " - then a peck on the cheek.