So last year when I was a senior I kept making eye contact w/ this one chick through the hallway as I was going to my class everyday. I then added her on facebook since I knew how she looked like and I opened her up with, "Hey you're that cute girl I see everyday bla bla". She was like "awww!" Anyways, at the end of the year I run into her again and I say, "Hey you're that girl from facebook, what's your name?" She says her name and I reach my hand out and say my name then I twirl her and said she's cute and she blushed. At that time she had a boyfriend.

NOW when I'm in college, here's what went down. I posted a joke on my friend's wall saying, "Hey wanna hear a joke about my penis? Never mind it's too long." Supposedly she saw this and replied to it saying, "HAH. That really is a joke.... just kiddinggggg."

Me: I like your default, I think it's a turn on.
Her: You mean Gianfranco's? Ohhhh yeahhhhhh.
Me: No, I mean yours. I like how your bangs sway to the right..kinda sexy
Her: HAHA. you're kidding, right?
Me: Why do you think I'm kidding?
Her: Idk... I just don't think it's sexy or a turn on.. at all. haha. Maybe that's just me
Me: Beauty is in the eye of the beholder, maybe that's just me.
Her: Haha that's trueee. Well, thank you then! (:
Me: I'm going to need your #, inbox it

She didn't inbox it so I chat her up on the IM chat this time:

Me: so what's your number?
Her: damn dude, you just get right to it, huh?
lol
Me: M-m, I just thought we could innocently meet or something. I saw you at MP but graduated
Her: hahaah innocently meet.
xD you saw me when i had a boyfriend. haha
Me: How about the mall, we'll bring some friends too. Is the weekend good for you?
Her: woah, what the.
haha uhm, sure? lol. like who?
Me: Anyone, we could all chill, but I want to see *you*. So you coming or not?
Her: hrm. one thing though... we never really... talked before
haha
Me: You're right, so we'll talk there
Her: LOL okay okay, that's legit. haha
Me: Saturday work? But I also need your # so I know.
Her: i think it works?
after 2, at least
its ---------
Me: alright, i'll call you soon, pleasure talking to you

The next day I call her number but it was the wrong number because I wrote the 7 with a bar going through it so it looked like a 4. I said, "Hey beautiful, it's Chris." Girl was like, "Chris who?" Then I said, "Chris Berardi." Then she said, "Umm this is Rihanna (wrong name) you got the wrong number." Then I said, "Wait, Rihanna from Chris Brown!?!" Then she said, "No haha!" Then I said, "You got a cute voice but anyways, see ya." Her: Bye.

Now I call the number again this time correctly so here's how it went down with the REAL girl.

Me: Hey beautiful, it's Chris..
Her: Hahahaha hiiii
Me: There was a huge car accident and they were carrying bodies on stretchers so I'm glad I called you!
Her: Oh my God what happened!?!
Me: I'll tell you once we meet up. How about this Friday at 2, my friends are coming as well.
Her: Yes, Friday it is, I'll see you there!
Me: Alright, take care..

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

I like how you escalate quickly but I would steer clear of complimenting a lot- You obviously have a certain style and..... "je ne sais quoi" that works....it just needs to be tweeked slightly.

I would also try to build some more rapport- to be honest this reeks of... "let's fuck" which isn't a bad thing per se, but causes a higher flake rate and will make gaming a lot harder. Clearly you're a plower.

Funny thing is that that's exactly the whole point of it haha. Good thing it reeks of "let's fuck" because that's the reality of the situation. I see what you mean but I got a certain way of handling the situation if gaming becomes harder. When I meet her, I will escalate straight away and build rapport, but I won't escalate TOO much. I'll first hang with everyone to let her see my social side and later I will grab her hand and cut her off from the rest of our group to isolate and that's when I really crank up the escalation. When I do escalate then, I'm going to run my index finger down her lips then get close to kiss her lips, but then step back without kissing them. Then I'll say "Let's go " and grab her hand back out and then make an ass out of myself being all humorous and social then reuniting back up with the group. It puts them at ease..

I used the compliment to raise sexual tension more since we were actually talking to one another this time, I didn't use it with the goal of just complimenting her trying to be nice. They gotta feel that chemistry asap. Now I won't kiss her on the first day unless she grabs me in, I'll just tease and make shit mutual. If I go all the way I risk looking needy and it gives her too much validation. It's best to leave them begging for more..

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

Sounds like you got a plan then. Good stuff.

I do the kiss thing as well- except with mine I go in, nearly kiss and pull back just a little and smile and say "Not Yet," and then turn completely away- it's a take on a David Deangelo move

At this point she is DESPERATE to get validation, and to kiss you, but I wait a little while longer.

You know what, fuck it. That "Not Yet" is good shit so ima use it. That's why if I do kiss her on that day, it's going to be because she pulls me in and forces it (if she's got the balls). The thing is that even if she were to do that, I'd still stop it because we're just in an isolated spot at the mall. Kissing should lead to clothes flying off so it's not like I can get right to business with her on the stairs.

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Don't get on one knee for a girl that won't get on two for you.

Exactly you don't want to escalate too far if you're not in a place to finish the deal. Plus the "not yet" is huge DHV on so many levels. Let us know how it goes.