lool everybodys making a big deal out of it.

Situation:

A guy walks home, naturally looking around, while seeing a girl dancing in front of a window. Then his thoughts are: ¨Hmm, I see my neighbour dancing in her house.¨, not ¨HOLY FUCK i have to cut out my eyes because I saw her dancing near a fucking huge window.¨

Itś a huge shit test, and if it isnt, act like it is.
Every fucking one knows that when they're dancing in front of a window that people will see them. That's why this fucks with my head. I just don't get it.

Personally I would send or say something like: "Excuse me? Do you really think I want to talk to someone that is so self-centered that the only thing you can come up with is that I'm stalking/watching you all the time? Haha, some people watch further than their own nose, girl."
from the top of my head.

Damn I would make sure that she knows that I really DONT CARE about what she thinks, because I know why she's thinking it, and if she's too dumb to see it from a different angle then she's a waste of everybody's time.

GL

Man, if my average-looking (I assume you're not very close to top 2.5% attractive like she is, if she really looks like Megan Fox) neighbour girl that I didn't totally have the hots for sent me a facebook message that implied watching me through the window I'd be like "wtf go away" too. Honestly, what would you do if a girl you aren't super hot for and never really talked to sent something similar to you?

The occasional "How you doin'??" plus a lame fb msg isn't going to cut it so then you're in the bunch with the rest of them just eyeing her up and sending lame facebook messages because you're too lame to walk to the door and ask her if she wants to fuck (maybe more implicitly, but god knows she does if your no-man story is true).

To answer your question: Maybe tell her you're sorry if it came off weird and you didn't mean anything by it, not that you're sorry you're a creep (big difference just make sure you word it right) and then proceed to ask her whether she would like a bit of bunga bunga IN PERSON LIKE A BOSS.

she probably thinking your gonna go over slip a chloroform soaked handkerchief over her face, throw her in the back of a panel van and bury her in the woods

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Hm. Does this mindset get you laid by quality women, if at all?

Just for fun, everything I've put in italics indicates you care and you have some unresolved issues with your outward views.

i wouldnt consider this chick quality, shes just hot...thats where it starts and ends

i have a friend that went to highschool with her said shes always been a total stuck up cunt. she models for some pin-up calander and thinks shes god in female form.

im not a creepy dude and have slept with girls of her looks caliber with actual personalities. this is just the type of chick that gets an ego boost off trying to bury guys instead of just saying not interested

insecure, hyper-reactive, unfucked, and miserable girl. dont give a enough shit at this point to point it out to her

im not saying anything, let her be awkward when she sees me outside

These women are sucubas, I wish I learned to recognize them sooner. So screw her and let her feel awkward, if she's capable of feeling awkward...

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rAFC and yes, I'm a chick.

I have bursts of being a lady, but it doesn't last long.

i read every comment and my oppinion is that u shouldnt approached her online especially if this girl lives next door but whats done is done plus if shes as hot as you say then ur opener was to direct and made u seem to intristed in her like any ohter guy who would hit on her and u shouldnt apoligize if she is pissed apolijizing wont do you any good keep acting like u dont care what she thinks and reply with a witty and funny remark just dont take it to far where she decides to move away lol jk

Maybe not - but sending a girl you hardly speak that lives next door a message via facebook that you saw her dancing in basically underwear by looking in through her window IS creepy.
If this is true, I have two questions for you:
1) Why do you give a shit to the point you made a post on here to ask us about it
2) If you have slept with girls who look like megan fox and have personalities you like - why the hell didn't you slap a ring on their finger unless you fucked up (i.e you did something creepy)
This is such an AWFUL mindset to have man. It is basically you just telling yourself its her not you - don't be the guy who blames "other factors" for things not going right like the CEO that blames the "current state of the company" on the millions of losses rather than the fucked up decisions they made.

Even if she is a time waster, ego driven super bitch from hell - can you not see how what you did was a little odd and would be off putting to any human, especially one who probably gets weird stalker guys around her a lot if she is as attractive as you say?

you didn't have the proper rapport for that kind of comment. If you were to send that to someone that you knew pretty well they wouldn't have been creeped out. Since you sent it to someone that you've never had a full conversation with, it's a fail. Work on your comfort levels first with the next one, apologize to this one and move on to another

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Hank Moody: Life is too short to dance with fat girls.

haha

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Hank Moody: Life is too short to dance with fat girls.

Let's say, as an example, there's a girl in a bar who bends over to adjust her shoe and you notice she's wearing lacy black thong underwear. Did you see it? Yes. Did you enjoy it? Of course you did. Now maybe she did this to grab your attention, maybe she didn't, but either way the last thing you do is walk over and say to her, "I was watching you bend over, your panties are really hot!"

creepy, lolol

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Dude my two cents:

Biggups for saying something to her!

Honestly she its an up hill battle for here. But if your down for it go all out and go to her house and TALK TO HER IN PERSON!

Let her see your a normal guy and you happened to catch her out once.

TALK TO HER IN PERSON!!

That will definitely make a difference.

Don't give the man credit for being a peeping Tom

Cointoss xD?

The truth is that I do care about people/women.
The fun part is that I know how women want to play, so I will PLAY along.
I've made my mistakes.

I suggest that you do not say that people have issues anymore without knowing sufficient background information on them. It's disrespectful.
If this is the only possibility for you to be disrespectful, yup you're miles away on the internet, then continue if it makes you so happy. Otherwise think twice before you state things.

If you think you're still right, then maybe you are the one that has issues.
I do find it kinda funny though.

And ProfessorX, yeah it's a bit weird to send it as the first thing you say to someone. Not really a good impression. But on the other hand, if she has a good enough impression of you without talking (body language etc.) then she would respond in a positive way. (thats my game)