this is the advice i have taken most to heart.... enjoy hangin out with her and if it leads to something it leads to something but if not well then fuck it. i have gained a good friend!

basically i was bored. we dated for a year and a half and i was getting sick of it.
the reason i was getting bored was because it wasnt going anywhere new. i wanted to experience new things etc etc
now i have gamed many girls (i havent slept with any, but have k closed, and been propositioned a few times) since the breakup and realise that it was not her being boring it was me, because every girl i have talked to is far more boring than my ex, and i have been less reserved so im enjoying everything much more. i have a friend who talks about a similar experience with his girl but instead of giving up in order to throw off the balance of life he pushed the relationship to the next step (travelling and moving in together) which he said made things better than new.

even now, i get more of a rush being around this girl than any other. ever.

and shwarma.... i am going to move very slowly. im talking months. if it doesnt feel right i will leave it in an early stage.