Hello guys. Please read all if it, sorry it's so long, and answer the last questions if you can.
Ok, so here is how the whole thing went.
I picked up this girl on a social sie. We talked for a few days, then she had to go on vacation in another country(I did manage to get her to say she would go out with me when she comes back), so there was a break that lasted for about a week or more.
When she comes back we start chating again, I reminded her about the so called date we where supposed to have, but it was hard getting her to go out with me. I eventually started saying stuff like I'm more used to face to face interaction and thats where I shine, these kinds of sites really aren't for me, etc. Finally I managed to set up a date because she was curious about "my" secret game, the cube. She told me she really liked those kinds of descovery games.
So we go out to the park(by the way she didn't even ask my name untill I reminded her of that on our date) and I start doing my thing, or at least trying. Turns out she already knew the cube, as well as the trust test. Anyhow I do a few other gimmicks and some games, the conversation picks up and I turned it most towards sexual memories, and we started trowing those kind of stories to one another.
She was pretty responsive with that and I learned alot of cool things about her sexual past. I think I trew in maybe one childhood memory that had nothing to do with sex, and maybe we talked abit about her job(she's a kindergarden teacher, and yeah she has passion for it). Maybe a few other small talk things that I don't remember but 80-85% of the conversation was sex talk.(My stories where 99% made up, and I'm not even gonna bother to figure how many of hers where lies as well)
As for the kiss I first used the Mystery method, but she said she doesn't like it, it doesn't work on her so she won't give me an answer. We talked abit more and then a silence moment came, I said something in the lines of "Oh no, an akward silence moment! Don't panic, it will pass. Olso do you know what I found out these silence moments are very good for?" she asked "What?" and I just went in and kissed her.
After that we kissed a few more times, actually at one time when I was about to end the kiss and pull back, she grabbed me by the back of my head and pulled me back in to make it abit longer(I really liked that...
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When she started wondering if we should go I made her stay a while longer, when she said she was cold(it was dark already and getting late) I saw that as a good oportunity to get closer so I said "Don't worry I'll keep you warm." and we started hugging and rubbing each other. Actually I was holding and touching her, her hands where nowhere on my body.
Finally we decided to go, so she drove me home. We olso talked about our next date during this one, she has to buy me drinks, and I olso used the "So, we going back to my place or yours?" one or two times.(I wasn't really expecting her wanting to sleep with me, but why take the chance of missing out on something, right?)
Over the next few days I tried abit of texting, or sexting, or whatever you wanna call it. Things like "Stop thinking about me, I've had hickups all day because of you, and almost droped a weight on my foot at the gym.
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Those didn't really work, she replied still using the site, saying that she was out of credit on her phone. I tried to act cool "Oh, I didn't even notice."
Last night I sent her a message(on the site this time) telling her where to come today for our date. I olso told her the date has 2 parts, the drinks and then a little surprize(was gonna try that painting date thingy I read about somewhere).
Our date is supposed to be in 1 hour from the moment I finish posting this, and she still gave me no sing of life. If she says something during this hour, or if she calls me after 1 hour saying something like "Ok, I'm here where are you?" I am thinking of saying "Next time let me know in advance if you are gonna come or not, I've made other plans already, I can't come now anymore."
Olso for those familiar with the pandoras box system, I think she is a Investor-Justifier-Realist, if this helps you guys. Olso she is a 7, maybe an 8, a few few extra kilos, but a pretty face. I figured I'd start slow and build up some confidence then go straight for 9's and 10's.
Once again sorry I wrote so much, and I sincerily hope some of you go through all of it. So what do I want from you?:
1. What mystakes do you think I've made during this whole story?(some of them I think I already know, but I would just like to hear it from someone else, and maybe a tip or 2 on how to avoid them in the future)
2. How should I proceed from here on out? Specially if lets say she doesn't give me any sign again ever. What should I do and when should I do it?(Keep in mind please that I am desperate at the moment, even if I won't get to sleep with her, I'd still really like to see her a few more times and kiss, hug and interact if thats all I can pull of for now. I'd olso like to take this oportunity to practice my game with her more.)
3. Any other thoughts you'd like to add that you think will help me.(if you want any more details about any of this please let me know, I'll gladly share. I left some things out, else this post would really be a mile long...)
Thank you!!
CHAT