Hey brothers,

Quick intro i'm Baron 22yrs old and I lift heavy things, My stats are 5 not bad considering I was in a 4 and a half year relationship that fell to shit. Ever since that day my aim has changed to chopping as many HB's as possible so maybe one day I can find the right one (maybe

The issue is more of a moral thing. I don't want to have to date a girl and have her get feelings for me just to get laid. I don't want to break hearts pretty much. How do I get around this?

Thanks for your help and maintain the rage

BARON

The easiest way is to be clear about your intentions. Say you don not want any emotion involved. But don't make yourself any illusions. Picking up girls very often means stealing their heart. Plain and simple.

Thanks brother,

When do you think the best time would be to be clear about your intentions?

I mean if you tell her to early your screwed and if it's to late and your even more screwed.

How do you operate?

Maintain the rage

BARON

Firstly, don't look at sex as her favor to you.

Never state your intentions. That kills the tension.

You push and calibrate based on her response.

If she lets you in her pants the first night, she probably just used you for sex.

If she is younger and/or inexperienced you can have the conversation on day2 where you'll set the frame that you want.

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If you tell a woman up front you aren't looking for a serious relationship, they cannot honestly criticize you for playing them.

Be honest.

With both her and yourself.

Know that honesty is not openness.

Love hurts.

It's the cost of doing business.

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Hey brothers thanks for all the replies,

I am going to have to go with Defy on this though

I am thinking about not mentioning shit until after the first date or at the end of it where I have calibrated her and elicited values within her. I think that would be best because the HB would now how shit hot I am and this would give me more of a chance to touch her boobies.

I think when I told her I would tell her the truth that I just left a long term relationship and I am broken man who can no longer love poor me hopefully she likes a challenge.

Let me know what you think boys?

Also let me know if this approach could be refined you know better times to sat it or better things to say.

Thanks for your help and maintain the rage

BARON

When that doesn't work, write me again and I'll explain why.

_________________
In Strength,

John P Morgan

"Authenticity is invincible."

LIVE IN LONDON!
The Authentic Approach - All Day Training
12th November 2011
http://themagneticman.com/store/the-authentic-approach/

Hey,

I'd rather now everything now so I can make a choice rahter then epicaly fail later. I'm not to proud take advice. Try me, Why?

Maintain the rage

BARON

Sorry dude! That wasn't meant for you. Posted in the wrong thread. Too many tabs open. Hah! Defy - good advice.

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In Strength,

John P Morgan

"Authenticity is invincible."

LIVE IN LONDON!
The Authentic Approach - All Day Training
12th November 2011
http://themagneticman.com/store/the-authentic-approach/

Guys'

Please let me know what you think of my point of attack?

Maintain the rage

BARON

There are ethical PUA out there- I am one of them. Whether that is a hold out from my ultra-conservative Southern Baptist upbringing or the fact my Mom and Dad always taught me to treat others with dignity and respect , I don't know but I have turned down ass before because I knew the girl was already scarred and I was just going to make it worse. In the end- that is someones daughter you're sarging.

My personal rules and code of conduct:

Leave her better than you found her.
Make your intentions very clear right off the bat.
Don't lie.
Don't sarg married women. Fiance and BF is fair game in my honest opinion. Especially if the guy they're with is abusive, or a drunk or some other form of douche bag waste of space- in that case it is my moral obligation to show her what a real man looks like.
Don't use her- if she wants it and you want it- then you're both getting something out of it.
Don't toy with her heart.
Be the man that you are. Don't change later. You should be the best of you- all the time.
Know yourself.
If you do decide she is someone you want to build a life with- then do the same things you did to win her, to keep her. Don't sit on the couch, be lazy and take her for granted and she won't do it to you.

However- this comes with a caveat- you're trying to be a PUA- you ARE going to hurt some of them....it happens. But not everything is meant to last forever, try to enjoy the time you do have together.

And be honest before cover-hopping with her. Being afterwards, just screams bastard on so many levels.

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