I'm not sure if this is two different problems or it could be related somehow...

So, I never considered myself one of those attractive guys. But anyways, I lost some weight earlier this year and I've been called cute by a number of girls since then. Even my mother is somehow convinced that I'm some sort of ladies' man now, telling me that my looks can only go so far and that I should stick with one girl. 

This sounds pretty good right? Well the fact is I'm single, the last time I got laid was over a year ago and I can't seem to get into a serious relationship with a girl. So I don't get it, if I have the looks why is it so hard to get a girl?

Second problem, when I hang out with a female friend (even different ones) people always think there is something going on between us. What's wrong with me?

Let me ask you this. How many girls have you approached in the last 3 months?

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I have to return some videotapes...

Game>looks

You can look so great women will come up to you, but you still need to be able to talk to girls, to touch girls, to escalate, etc. If you never approach a girl, you won't get laid. If you can't kino, you won't get laid. So go out and meet some women!