One thing I've learned is that girls dig bad boys, but they respect good guys. I think that mixing the two is an extremely powerful way to get girls to be your fuck friend, friend with benefits, whatever.

Instead of just having sex with her once, I actually stop them and tell them my intentions. I tell them the truth that I am only in this for fun and that if she wants a relationship she can leave now. Girls are very open to this kind of thing, and even if they aren't, they'll appreciate that you told them up front instead of after.

Here is an example:

I told a girl before we had sex that I wasn't looking for anything serious and that I was just having some fun with her. She asked me if this would be the only time, and I said no that we can see each other if she wants, but that I'm not ready for a relationship.

After she blew me (she was on her periods) and left she texted me the following:

I'm so fucking happy that you told me right away, next time that we see each other, I promise you that it won't be to do homework! (I invited her to my place with the pretext of doing homework) If you still want to see me of course

So you see how powerful it can be if you just say the truth up front instead of falsely luring them into a one night stand.

Very nice. Honesty has always been my policy, as well. And better than attracting girls, it's the all the trouble you will save yourself. I have friends who lie to girls to get sex, and they always have issues because of false expectations they've created. And then they wonder why I "have it so good".

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Hahha, love to hear this. I do exactly the same and people call me crazy.
Good job on being honest +1

finally someone doing it right

round of applause for this guy

Honesty, FTW

Its sad that most guys think being totally honest will hinder them from getting laid.

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Honesty is the only way to go. Why bother lying?

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I'm not trying to be a dick Ezo, but you're being a Pick Up Snob in my opinion.

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Nice. For such a "good boy" it's funny that your nick is "punisher"

Would saying that after the first lay and not before it make a difference? I mean, I usually tell girls way way before we even get there that I'm not looking for a relationship but if you bring it on just before sex... I don't know. Try to work it in way before or work it in after, but coming out with it just before can screw you up.

It can be a difference phangan. Sometimes people get a bit infatuated after sex. A girl that comes off as just wanting to have a good time can become a bit clingy (guys can too). Punisher's point is that if you say up front what you're deal is, you will never risk being called a player, at least not honestly.

Thanks guys, feedback much appreciated! By the way that example text I showed you, well I had sex with her like 3 days ago. Honesty rules.

Honesty is honestly the best policy.

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I do know 1 thing though, bitches they come they go

Yes, me and my wing used this routine or something similar with all girls, that we just want a friendship, but very similar, this works wonders, this actually will get you laid, because from the women point of view you are a blunt/honest guy, therefore a good sincere guy but also a CHALLENGE, so she will try to make you the boyfriend... I think David D is the one that advises something similar...

Hb: so how come you do not have a girlfriend

me: Cause i do not settle, people do not really know each other till after 6 months of being together to a year... But most people settle they overlook the things they are not looking for for the sake of being with somebody. What i do is i date, while i am dating i get to know you and make sure sex is good, cause sex is one of the most important part of the relationship, now if everything is good, and i make you my girlfriend, then at that point i am exclusive...or some bs like this, you do not have to mention the sex part but i do, and when i do sometimes i give an example of women making you wait, then you get attached, then sex sucks, and then you dump her, and both of you wasted your time, and i tell them the best thing is to get sex out of the way fast...


Again this routine will get you laid, shows you have higher value, you are a challenge, and you are honest and confident...

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punisher that was an epic move!