ive known this girl for around 3 years, HB10, and im WAY IN THE FRIENDZONE, so i gave up with her about a 1 yr ago, and jst stayed brilliant mates...always looks good on my arm when we are out chilling helps alot

anyway she got this boyfriend who treated her like shit she was thinking about dumping him, cause he gets aggressive and angry and way sorta ott with her, making her come in and just being a controlling dick head...none of her guy friends like him,
none of her female friends like him....anyway about 2 weeks ago he finally crossed the line he went to a party slept with another girl...it got out...

HB10 dumps him saying i knew i couldnt trust him thank god he gone all this!!!! THANK FUCKING GOD FOR THAT or so we thought, about 2 day later she takes him back and now seems to be so madly in love with him she has started treat us lot her mates like crap and ditching us to see him missing birthdays or planned events, etc cause he doesnt want to go....

she now has no friends cause we dont take it, male or female....her family think she is stupid and don't like him, but she now wont leave him seems to think he is like god of her world WTF!!!!!

how does this work reallly confused someone please advise i would like to get her away from him even if this means gaming her then leaving her down the line but dear god why would she go back to him?????????????????????????????????????

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Hi dude,

I see where you're coming from and have been there in terms of liking someone but being placed into the friend zone.
I've been in 'friend zone' with a girl I know for 6-7 years now. She has a BF. A few years ago I gave up trying to convince her to go out with me.
A few months ago me and her went out for a coffee during which time I told her about the Game (book) and that I was reading it. I had her read a segment in the book where Strauss almost step by step run's through gaming a girl.
I showed her a trick I'd learnt (a mystery thing) and explained about kino and the steps for gaming someone. She'd had experience of all those steps in the past and she was soo intrigued by the book. I went on to the cube routine and then dropped her off at home after. She text messaged me within an hour of dropping me off to say how interesting our conversation was.
A day later she asked if i'd like to catch up for a couple of drinks. I said yes, and arranged a venue with her. That venue soon changed (at her request) to my house !
On the night I escalated kino (as practice), we got closer and the rest is self explanatory.

You can either tell her about the game or try things like the cube, kino escalations etc to create excitement. have you heard of/read through the mystery method (MM)? There's a forum post under 'strawman' for for dealing with the BF.

Good luck bud

Hmmmm. You have alot of posts so I thought this would be clear to you. I understand you are not trying to game her anymore but talking badly about this dude will not help her get over him. Girl's become mentally/emotionally attached to bad guys/relationships. He may be a super dick but he is giving her that emotional feeling she is craving. I know tons of guys who are really possesive that keep girl friends hooked. It may be something wrong with her aswell (daddy issues). She may be young and retarded. Many different things. He is doing something right behind the scenes though, prob the stuff we talk about on this forum just naturally.

Well, she seems to be the kinds who seem to realize the extent of their mistake, only when it blows up in their faces at the end.

I wouldn't worry about it if I were you, simply because she is deaf to logic right now, she is in some sort of purple patch in her head, and she is loving that.

So, instead of you spending all that time and energy worrying about her, go find some other girl who deserves that.

Good luck.

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Girls love assholes because they think they can 'fix' him. It sucks for you but she'll have to find out he's really bad for her.