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OK, four days before leaving Ibiza and I finally get it. Dancefloor cracked wide open. OKAY!
It ALL boils down to the idea that it is not the girl who rejects the guy but the guy who rejects HIMSELF. THIS IS THE KEY TO PICK UP! I DO NOT KNOW WHAT THIS MEANS I DISAGREE.
The most important theoretical concept here is what I call "micro mirroring". LOL!
If you want to see what it means just go out tonight and watch chodes open sets. What you will see is this:
A guy dances around a girl for 5 minutes, stares at her, creeps her out... then he unconfidently approaches her. He is in state of INTERNAL TURMOIL, INSECURITY and FEAR. YES HE IS VIOLATING THE 3 SECOND RULE, AND HE IS WHAT I CALLED PARKING IT IS CREEPY SHOWS LACK OF CONFIDENCE...
The girl see this and immediately micro mirrors this behavior - "who is this guy? what does he want? Is he going to hump me or rape me or WTF?!" . This will show on her body-language and facial expression. NO THE GIRL SEES HIM AND HE LOOKS UNATTRACTIVE BECAUSE OF LACK OF GAME, SOCIAL SKILLS, AND CONFIDENCE, CHODE
The guy will see her reaction and will sink deeper and deeper into a state of insecurity, which she will mirror further in a quick loop of negative micro mirroring. All this will take place in less than 3 seconds! YES HE WAS DOOMED TO FAIL HE TOOK TOO LONG, COMES BACK TO CONFIDENCE
BOOM the guy has just rejected himself. The girl had literally NOTHING to do with it. YOU MAKE NO SENSE, HE VIOLATED THE 3 SECOND RULE.
Mirroring of the behavior of the person standing in front of us is a BASIC and automatic social reaction. We do this ALL the time. If someone is nice to us - we will reciprocate. If someone gives you an angry face, you will normally turn away from that person. if you get a smile - you will smile back - unless you are a lunatic. UNDERSTAND this concept, it is so fucking basic. YES BUT IN A CLUB SITUATION IS DIFFERENT, THERE IS NO SO MUCH MIRRORING GIRLS HAVE BITCH SHIELD ON STEROIDS...
Now in order to avoid this problem all you have to do is this: watch all the chodes around you for an hour, or two, or THREE, until it SICKENS YOU. HAHAHA! I DO NOT WORRY ABOUT CHODES I WORRY ABOUT MY TARGETS...
Then tell yourself "what they are doing is the COMPLETE OPPOSITE OF WHAT I AM GOING TO DO TONIGHT!". THEY ARE GOING TO HELP MY GAME I LOVE THEM...
And then just go NUTS having fun, dancing around, high fiveing people, and NOT GIVING A FUCK. GOOD!
I'm now at a point where 8 or 9 out of 10 sets will open to me on the dancefloor and I'm willing to demonstrate this to anyone who wants to sarge with me. I WORRY ABOUT CLOSING AND NOT WASTING TIME, THIS IS MEHOW SHIT! HE IS SO WEAK...
Now there is ONE MORE THING you need to know and this is FUCKING KEY:
There are REAL rejections and FAKE rejections. 80% of rejections are FAKE. They are meant to TEST YOU. NO, A REJECTION IS A REJECTION!
Many girls, especially the 8-9-10s, will FAKE REJECT 80% of guys on their first approach BY DEFAULT. NO THEY WILL REJECT THE GUYS THAT ARE NOT SMOOTH...
Even if you go over with 100% confidence / vibe / state they will still tentatively reject you ! There is a reason for this but I don't want to get into it now... the point is that the first AND SECOND rejections simply DO NOT COUNT. I DON'T KNOW WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT!
Any dance-floor rejection that doesn't include a "no no" hand movement, a "no no" head movement, or the girl/girls bouncing to a different area of the club is a FAKE REJECTION. NO THIS IS NO A REJECTION, YOU ALSO MISSING A GIRL STOPPING DANCING OR SLOWING DOWN HER DANCING, OR HUGGING HER FRIEND. AGAIN THEN IF SHE IS NOT DOING ANY OF THOSE THINGS YOU AND I DESCRIBE IS NOT A SOFT REJECTION, IS NOT A REJECTION...Social rejection occurs when an individual is deliberately excluded from a social relationship or social interaction.
A fake rejection is a "soft" rejection. The girl doesn't open up to you but she doesn't really leave or tells you to fuck off. She is waiting to see what your NEXT move will be. FINALLY GOOD, BUT IS NOT A SOFT REJECTION, IS JUST NOT A REJECTION, SHE IS NEUTRAL, I THINK YOU ARE USING SOFT REJECTION, AND I DO NOT LIKE THE WORD, IS NOT A REJECTION READ THE DEFINITION ABOVE.
If you are being faked rejected you must HOLD your uber confident state of mind and NOT mirror the rejection, demonstrating in the process that YOU DO NOT GIVE A FUCK and that your reality is ROCK SOLID and IS NOT EFFECTED BY EXTERNALITIES. GOOD GOOD I AGREE...
You open. Then if you are fake rejected you BRUSH IT OFF because you are that cool guy who KNOWS THE DEAL, you turn around, dance with your wing for a minute and GO IN AGAIN. AGAIN I DO NOT LIKE THE WORD FAKE REJECTED, IT IS NOT A REJECTION..
Then you REPEAT.
The 3rd time you open the set will EXPLODE. But only if you did not let the first rejections get to you. I DO NOT UNDERSTAND
If you get a REAL rejection - you brush off that too and move on! Nothing happened! You do not give a fucking fuck! GOOD!
Every time I open a set and get a soft / fake "rejection" I turn to my wing and signal to him "1" with my finger before I go in again. Then I signal "2" and then a "3 - watch this..." and BOOM the set opens. HAHAHHAA! GOOD I JUST DO NOT LIKE SOFT/FAKE REJECTION IS NOT A REJECTION.
It's so fucking weird that it is not even funny! CLUB GAME UNPREDICTABLE
And I'm talking 8s and above here. Most normal girls will open on the first try.
Understand the concept of "micro mirroring" and eradicate any reaction to the girls behavior. Some girls will demonstrate insecurity no matter what, even if you are a rock, because guess what - girls are fucked up just like guys are - this is a case of them rejecting themselves! THEY ARE JUST NO COMFORTABLE THEY DO NOT KNOW WHO YOU ARE, AND YOUR AGENDA, AND IF YOU ARE CHODE, OR YOU GOT GAME...IT IS NOT REALLY INSECURITY IS BITCH SHIELD
Do not mirror the girls fucked up internal state - you are having fun and you are trying to suck them into your world! GOOD
The main point here is that most guys don't know about fake rejections. So they think that they are rejected and then mirror the rejection and sink into "I've just been rejected mode" not opening that set again and possibly not opening any other set for the rest of the night.
Understanding micro mirroring + fake rejections = potent shit.
Make a GAME out of it. Tell yourself "I'm going to get girls reject me and practice holding ground of my superior state no matter what a disgusted face she gives me! I will not mirror anybody but myself!"
Yea! Just writing this post puts me in state. I'm gonna open the next hot girl I see. Actually... I'm kind of always in state now. Once you nail this shit down, nothing can touch you.
If anybody wants to see this in action let me know, I'm in Europe now for a few more weeks and looking to travel around and sarge in random cities before heading to Australia. HAVE FUN!!!!!![/u][/b] _________________ Learn the proper way to maximize your results in a dancefloor/club environment, check out my blog and youtube channel:
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