Been trying to game this really HB for a while.

I'll start from the beginning.

Met her at a bar I go to about 4 months ago. She works there behind the bar. It was clear she was giving me signals. Every time I went past, she would stare and smile. I went over and got her number. Chatted for a bit for a while. Few weeks later, I then asked her out at the bar. She claimed she was sort of seeing someone!?

I later find out she is single but she's my mate's F**K buddy (who happens to be an AMOG!). Obviously I'm not too happy about it but I don't let it show to either of them.

She works at a different pub now, near my house. So on my way to Uni, I would pop in for a chat with her as the pub is dead during the day and she doesn't mind. We have good chats and I try to flirt a bit. But nothing is going further. I say " you should come out with me and my mates this Saturday, we're gonna go to this and that e.t.c. She seems up for it. I don't see her at all on Saturday.

I send her a text, but she doesn't seem very responsive so I ended it on a high note.

Sent her a text last night (really high energy, acted cool, saying that my day was awesome and hilarious and how hers went).

No reply.

I speak to her on facebook. She's very unresponsive and says she was asleep?! (It was 9pm when I sent it, and I knew she was online as she was on FB all night.)

Is she playing games with me? Or should I leave it?

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you positive she was into you?

she's a bartender she should be smiling at everyone

plus it seems like you are showing way too much interest, going to the pub when it's empty and she's working..you're like forcing yourself on her a little tooo much.

stop seeing her so frequently when she's at work...you make it so that she's forced to talk to you..i wouldn't be surprised if you're annoying her

I've only seen her twice in that pub. She asked me to go over the first time.

She seemed that into me. She served me first at the bar and chatted with me when there was loads of guys waiting at the bar. I noticed she didn't chat or smile at them when I left.

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IMO you waited too long, you should have acted much faster.

A girl's initial interest can fade quickly if you do nothing about it.

It is fucked up. Move on.

Probably for the best. I've forgotten about her now. Thanks anyway.

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Seems like this is in hindsight but you could've looked at it in the 'game against your pal' way. You could have tried things out, formed a strong rapport with her, made her want to be around you all the time, tested tricks and routines etc.

It's great to have a guinea pig for these things.