so my first reply just raved about theslackpack´s idea of stacking openers. now id like to share some of my favourite techniques...
an opener has to be honest. youll notice, if you talk about a topic with your wing first, and then use it as an opener, it will work much better. so if its real it comes across as honest.
so what did i do ?
i just used the things that came to my mind, and then developed openers from that. theese were things like: hey, i really fucked up, i just missed a girl i wanted to meet, i was late, if you were that girl, what should i do that she istn too upset ?
well the situation was real at this time...
-now, with that opener you first ask her for advice, so its nothing shell answer yes or no to.
-its an open loop, because she wants to know what happened.
-you show that there are other girls around you
-its roleplaying
- and this is the best: shell think about and tells you what YOU SHOULD DO TO GET HER !!
hey, thats all for now, go out and try it until i tell you more of that stuff
regards, Markus