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skills360
PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2011 9:23 pm 
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So I recently noticed I miss a very important attribute called passion in my lifestyle. I have ambition, I'm confident, I'm organised I have a job and etc. But I have no drivewheel for my life, or anything to make myself interesting.

Because I'm still young I dont earn a lot of money, to go out to places and do activities, join basketball teams or dancing lessons. Which same counts for a friend of mine. We always do the same shit which makes us dont spend a coin, but our chillings get monotone at a time. Our friendgroup does the same shit for almost 3 years now.

We recently joined a gym which takes almost halve of my salary, and the other half is needed to get the month trough.

I dont got a passion, and I dont got the money to invest in a passion or to do something to make my life at least a bit interesting. I brainstormed a lot and I dont know what to do, I'm clueless.

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PostPosted: Tue Sep 13, 2011 10:06 pm 
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Maybe broccoli is not good for you, meybe you are just being a broccoli because your parents tried to raise you as one.
The point is:

1. If you choose to remain a broccoli, go ahead.
2. If you choose to mutate into something else, plan, strategize, and WORK at it.
3. Above all, don't make a mockery of yourself by labeling yourself what you are not.
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PostPosted: Wed Sep 14, 2011 10:47 am 
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Two reasons I have been told I am interesting. I just know a lot of useless shit that sounds interesting to me and the other part of it is I sometimes turn off that little voice in my head that says "Are you sure that's a good idea?" Fuck it, I only live once, who wouldn't want a giraffe for a pet? Win, win.

Also- try picking up an instrument and joining a band, or even do open mic. Anytime I play in public, I get opened. Not the other way around. It is cure's AA. As does theater.

Learn to paint
Learn French
Build a __________
Learn to fix cars


Or try getting involved in an amateur soccer team instead joining a gym.

Learn to kayak
Learn poker, join a free tourny
become a bartender

There are tons of shit to do in the world.....Whenever I just do shit, I normally wind up with a good story. Sometimes broken bones and such too but- in the end, when I am 100 and dying surrounded by loved ones, I want my head full of memories that I made. If it's not and all I can think about is that time I saw a funny t-shirt - I didn't win at life.
+10 ... i want a giraffe as well ! fuck it!

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Ever seen the film Yes man? Try that. The person that you barely know, but asked you to their leaving do out of politeness? Should you go? YES. etc.

Put yourself in the position where interesting things can happen to you.

I caught the train the other weekend even though I could have driven.=: I thought I might speak to someone interesting there. As it turned out, someone shot a window of the train out with an air rifle. When you turn up at the party, you've instantly got a cool story!

If you need to get out-of-character crazy quickly, try the 'dice-man'. Basically, get 6 mates* around, assign each person a number, write down a crazy thing for each person to do and then roll a dice. As the 'winner' has to do what was written, don't write down anything that won't be carried through.

*Ironically, if you're the sort of person who's got enough dice that you can handle whatever number of friends turn up (oh look, I've got an eight sided dice), a coin will probably suffice.
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Maybe broccoli is not good for you, meybe you are just being a broccoli because your parents tried to raise you as one.
The point is:

1. If you choose to remain a broccoli, go ahead.
2. If you choose to mutate into something else, plan, strategize, and WORK at it.
3. Above all, don't make a mockery of yourself by labeling yourself what you are not.
Yes, I agree with you. I just see too many guys turning into what they think girls like and are in the end worse off than they were from the beginning. Fucking up all their serious relationships because they wanna behave like what they think an alpha male is. So the lose the feel for what a good human being is.

I absolutely agree that it takes hard work to change and it is worth it. Improving your weak sides is great.

And to point 3... Absolutely. And that is what I mean about guys who lost track of who they are because they turn into what they think will work with the girls instead of turning into what makes them better versions of someone they can be proud of. If you dont stay true to yourself you just replace limiting beliefs with other limiting beliefs...

Maybe I worry too much...

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I'd say be metrosexual and be comfortable with that. That's really interesting to a woman. Knowing that a man spends money on his appearance.
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