I know, in pickup, we're always trying to counteract the "bitch shield" that women have when we first approach. But ironically, now that I have a gf, I wish she'd be MORE of a bitch when other guys approach her and hit on her. She didn't seem to develop the ability to shoot guys down from the very start. And it's bugging me, because virtually 100% of the time this happens... I'M NOT AROUND! I have absolutely no insecurities about my own value and abilities. But in my absence, a decent PUA could potentially swoop in and create some strong attraction in her, because she's as trusting and gullible as a 4-year-old who's offered candy! Can I get some help here guys?

Some women just dig the attention. There is very little you can do about that.

I HAD the same problem.

To fix it, I talked to her, and told her that I trust her, and feel very comfortable and secure about our relationship. However, I let her know that because I'm putting "all" my trust in her, I should never feel any doubts about it. If I did, I wouldn't ask questions or try to investigate. The relationship would be over.

This makes women realize that they shouldn't f*ck with you, cause you are not having it. They may like attention, but if they really like you, they won't do anything to jeopardize the relationship, including talking to other guys...

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This man speaks much wisdom.

and i just learned something. i don't have to use it in my current relationship, but i could have used it in one i used to be in.

Why can't anyone say the obvious thing?

You have insecurity issues. The fact that you worry about her reaction towards other guys show that you are not sure about her loyalty towards you.

Women are much more loyal in relationships than men are.

Deal with that before you do anything else.

So, what if she's not being a bitch to guys? If she is coming back to you at the end of the day, I think things are fine.

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Agree with point number one! This is all in your head.

Disagree with point number two... Anyone can cheat.

Plus, If you dont trust her, why would you wanna be with her? As I said, anyone can cheat, what are you gonna do about it? Change the girl you are with just so that you dont have to deal with your own insecurities? Or are you gonna lock her up in a dungeon?

Boy, the easiest way to have her cheat on you and lose her is to be too jealous, that is majorly unattractive...

Talk to her, but do not try to change her. Either you accept her for who she is or you find yourself another girl because the hell she will go through being your girlfriend if you dont stop being so jealous is not gonna be a fictive one.

This is tough love boy but I feel that I can give advice since I have been there myself.

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