So it is the first day of art class at my Uni and as soon as I walk in some 7/10 eye fuks me. She is sitting at a table with 4 other girls, 5/10's. So as I notice her eye fuking me (eye contact 2-3 seconds, then I break it) I immediately sit at her table(not directly beside her, on the opposite side of table, on the opposite end). I did this casually (no creeper). As class starts I happen to look up a few minutes later and notice her staring at me again, same thing happens (eye contact 2-3 seconds then I break it). As the lecture continues I see her out of the corner of my eye continuing to check me out. We are then told to work as a group on an art project(college level art).

Within a few minutes of working together as a group, she makes a comment to the group that "her boyfriend....yada yada yada". I don't pay it any attention, I make small talk amongst the group, joke around with her and one other girl throughout the project. Then I start flirting more with the "other girl". Me and her are having a good time but the original girl with the "bf" is starting to notice and gets somewhat quiet.


My questions

Any idea why the bf comment was announced if I was getting major IOI's? Was that a DQualifer on her part because of the over the top IOI's, not to look too anxious? How did my game same? I know it was a general description but I felt as though I was just running natural game(kinda cocky funny, teasing).


My first post, have lurked here a little on here.

Thanks guys!

anytime a bf is mentioned your doing something wrong. Eaither she has one, she wants you to be more "quiet" about your going ons, shes testing your confidence, or she wants you to go away. I have nc which one is your problem, but find it out before you lose it all. Points about your game - shes eye F-in you, and you go to her? Next time make her approach YOU and sit where YOU are. The test to see if a girl likes you is to have her come to your table, you move, and see if she follows; guess what you did? You were the girl. My tips

If I were you, I would try not to over-analyse eye contact. Once you start going down that road, you'll start wondering "does she like me?" until that's all you can think about then bam. Oneitis!
I will also have to agree with the guy above me, my experiences with girls saying the word "boyfriend" have never ended well. This is your first week at uni, you should be gaming the field and widening your options. Don't put all your eggs in one basket!

Thanks guys. Some great suggestions! I understand that normally when a BF is mentioned ...its due to coming on to strong or that she isnt interested. The strange part is, I had not said anything to her prior to her mentioning this.

It almost seemed like it slipped out, or she was trying to make me jealous...idk...

But yeah, im def not putting all my eggs in one basket, I was just trying to get a feel for how to read this situation if it ever happened again in the future.

Oh and btw, there wasnt really that many other seats open to sit in, so I was sort of stuck sitting where I did

@Str8shooter

DUDE I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION!!!
Difference here is all IOIs and stuff were leading.. she asked if I would like to come with her around campuses... took rather specific interest in my personal life and seems to be rather playful during lectures (sticking her tongue out across the room, writing messages on my notes).

Now as @Charblad said: who follows who. She even moves and sits where I sit, and pretty much ASKS me where I would like to sit in the class.

One day, we were talking and the comment "i'm going to see my boyfriend all that day" came up. :O - Ok curve ball, but I still managed to recover and get her number.

This makes me wonder - WTF?! other guys on the forum (chat room) mentioned that she's just not into me or Friend Zone.. I can see myself probably friend zone, but would like to avoid that..

Any suggestions?

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@Str8shooter

DUDE I'M IN THE SAME SITUATION!!!
Difference here is all IOIs and stuff were leading.. she asked if I would like to come with her around campuses... took rather specific interest in my personal life and seems to be rather playful during lectures (sticking her tongue out across the room, writing messages on my notes).

Now as @Charblad said: who follows who. She even moves and sits where I sit, and pretty much ASKS me where I would like to sit in the class.

One day, we were talking and the comment "i'm going to see my boyfriend all that day" came up. :O - Ok curve ball, but I still managed to recover and get her number.

This makes me wonder - WTF?! other guys on the forum (chat room) mentioned that she's just not into me or Friend Zone.. I can see myself probably friend zone, but would like to avoid that..

Any suggestions?

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bump=bumping thread to top for my advice

Next time a girl is giving you that much amount of eye-contact, the protocol is to go up to her and initiate a conversation.

Not the whole "ignoring-but not really ignoring" crap which you had put on.

Also, the fact that she is bringing up her boyfriend, could be a test or it couldn't, you won't know till you go ahead and talk to her.

So, do that.

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