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My girl says the spark between us is gone. Anything I can do to get it back? Any techniques or plans?
Have you read The Game? If not, read it.
In the book Strauss talks about relationships that lose their spark and the reasons why. Blokes can become too needy, are too nice, pay for everything, get jealous when their girl is talking to another bloke, bend over backwards to do things for her. They basically make it too easy for her which causes her to lose interest.
(I can relate to some of those points from previous failed relationships).
You need to work on youself before you can work on her. Learn to open groups of people or girls up (Mystery Method) - but not necessarily with the intent of picking up girls. Learn how to get people interested in you, think of stories, learn one or two bar tricks.
...TBH I'm pretty sure you'll meet someone better whilst doing this anyway and sack her off completely...