ok before you give me the "don't try and get back with your ex move on etc etc" i just want to say that i am not going to exclusively game her however i am going to game her regardless.
so, i havent spoken to her in about two weeks. (this was her idea, she said she will make contact with me when she gets back from a trip which is in about a week). if she tries to get in contact with me i am going to blow her off until i get back from new zealand (a week later). then i am going to hang out with her and game her as if we never went out (control the interaction, be alpha, be fun, be sparse) basically i am going to remind her how awesome i am without acknowledging the fact that we were together or broke up.
then i will go away (i have alot of female friends who are hb10 so i am going to get them to post on my fb etc to create jealousy) and not talk to her for a week or so, if she messages me i will give her quick replies etc. from there i will just come up with ideas for us to hang out. im almost certain she is going to want to hang out as friends and i am going to make her want more.

to give a little background i broke up with her. i did supplicate to her a little while back being needy etc. two weeks ago she told me she had feelings for me and we kissed. i am pretty sure she is scared of being hurt. if i do get her back i will escalate to a relationship and leave other girls alone.
so... what do you guys think? any ideas to smooth the process?

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I don't see a reason why your working on her and trying to make her jealous. It almost seems to me she has a giant impact on your life that you have to work for her really hard and make extensive plans. First of all what you have to do is understand she is only one girl and there are many more better than her. Then you must understand that you indeed can get her back. The way you will get her back is by having fun in your life and at the same time talking to her like a friend. Any attempt to get her back will throw her off. Have fun look for other girls and at the same time talk to her like a friend. When she realizes you aren't missing her but rather having fun she will want you back. Good luck!

- Amazing Art -

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Thanks man, that is in effect what I was planning on doing, you just did a better job at wording it than I did... And who knows, I'm going to keep meeting people maybe i will find someone better in the mean time.

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Why?

So in short you want to play games and create drama? This pretty much will end in one way and not in a good way.

Idk man. I think I am just still hurt from the breakup. I will stay her friend and see where it leads but I am not trying to fuck her over intentionally.

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If you want her to come back to you, you should stop to contact her for a while. Don't speak to her anymore, reduce the contact as much as possible. I did with my girlfriend and it worked. It's better to let her think about you and how important you are, then to try to convince her trough logic, that you should remain together. If you suffered a break-up, visit http://seduceandattract.blogspot.com/. And also if you want to improve and work also your inner-game, visit http://seduceandattract.blogspot.com/ and see some interesting articles. Some of them really helped me.

"He who loves the least, controls the relationship."

If she is going to want to be friends with you and "hang out" in that capacity, behave like she is a total stranger and that you don't even know her well (even if you do). That sudden distance between you both will confuse her and she'll be interested in figuring what led you to this stance.

Maintain the frame and hold it till she submits.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Instead o tricking her into wanting you, why not give her a reason to?

What reason can you give her to want you over any other guy?

No superficial shit like flowers.

A real reason.

The kind she will give shit up for.

Make this your focus and you won't need to chase anymore.

Because you are chasing. And no matter how you spin that...it's weak and unattractive.

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John P Morgan

"Authenticity is invincible."

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what if i feel like she does want me but doesnt trust me?
you know how you just know when someone still loves you? i feel that and her body language betrays her words when she says she doesnt want to be with me. but i think she is scared i will hurt her. (i didnt cheat or anything, just left).
this is turning into a case of oneitis for me which sucks. but im sure she isnt ready to move on yet.

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Find interest in other women while at the same time being the most trustworthy person or thing she has ever known.

Trust isn't only evidenced by being faithful. Trust is evidenced in the tiniest of details.

The more authentic you are with her, the more certain she will become about who you are, what you want and where you are going. And the more she will trust you.

But do find interest in other women too. This will help ensure you are moving from a place of desire and not a place of need. Desire is attractive. Need is disgusting.

To do this you must escape the "oneitis" mindset. There is a very real middle road where a man can have multiple desires...including both someone special and alternatives.

This is desire. Not need.

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In Strength,

John P Morgan

"Authenticity is invincible."

LIVE IN LONDON!
The Authentic Approach - All Day Training
12th November 2011
http://themagneticman.com/store/the-authentic-approach/