I recently started college, and of course my mindset is to try and approach a few college girls for the experience and maybe get lucky. but whenever a hb is walking past me, I choke on every opener I try to throw out. what's wrong with me? I fear ill never get over AA at this rate. Any ideas or inspirational words that could help an acf like myself in this kind of situation?

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I've read some other posts about this, try to be rejected.
In that way you will never fail and probably won't be rejected anyway

I'd just start by saing something as simple as hi, or instead of starting with the hotter girls, start opening the uglier ones to get in the mood.

It might be that you are not rehearsing your openers in front of a mirror. Besides people only use openers in an attempt to get rejected less. I am playing this game of how many times I can get rejected. Surprisingly, with this mindset I got shut down for some #s but never for a chat.

Try to get slapped tonight..it'll help you overcome your fear

Watch some videos on youtube about approaching.

Fist of all is to workout what you want the outcome to be (number/email close, kiss close, f-close) before the approach - this is your objective.

Body language is key, the opener is important (make it funny, perhaps add a neg), draw them in with a story (DHV)/learn a simple bar trick or two (3 cup trick), create rapport (talk about general life stuff - what stuff do they like to do?)-learn the cube routine, escalate-kino throughout rapport, close. That's the Mystery Method in a nutshell. Read up on it...

http://www.seductionbase.com/mysterymethod.htm

Good luck

3 rules...

if u see it, u approach it..."meaning the second u get the hey shes cute go through yr head approach!!! anytime and place anywhere jst do it!!!!"

30 second rule if u are in a club for more than 30 seconds and havn't even said hello to a stranger walk out move clubs and come back later (it can literately take 30 seconds to destroy yr social value)

"rule of 3" (sometimes called the 3 second rule with my own twist), see a set approach set, and start talking within 3 seconds(or steps) if there within there steps of u open them now!....now i teach that this rule has actually two meanings that yes u should open within 3 seconds but two, there should not be a gap larger than 3 seconds of silence for the first 3 minutes of conversation....

these where the rules i found and adapted to help me get over my AA

What is your 30 second rule based on? Are you trying to escalate your social standing in the venue by doing this or just evaluating whether or not a club is rich in HBs?

good question, i started using this rule and a few of my friends do now aswell for 3 main reason...

within 30 seconds, with no obvious signs of being interesting u can blow out a whole room every set and every women is gunna spot u alone!....so by leaving it give you the escape that yr just looking for your mates or your girl, thats the only reason your alone...

within 30 seconds, you can assess a whole club, and have already given yourself MASSIVE AA!!! so it helps and did help me to deal with this...

and thirdly more recently, yes if u remain in motion for these 30 seconds and still see nothing you like, move on dont wait for the girls to arrive because u might be missing the gorgous girl 100yards up the road in the next club some other guy is taking home tonight because u stayed where u where ...

hope this clears things up

Get over it or just have a few beers lol

I would like to evaluate on Gustavo Fring's answer.
Plan to fail.

Now, by that, I am not implying that you set up your worst openers, dive into a conversation with no game plan and await to be rejected. That is a clear rejection for obvious reasons.
What I mean, is plan your opener and your conversational topics and so on.. However, be in the mindset of a possible (almost certain) rejection.
As Thomas Norton once quoted; "Hope for the best and prepare for the worst"

The fact of the matter is, rejection is the only efficient way to better yourself. You will learn how and where you went wrong, and what can be done to improve.

I would strongly advise focusing your attention on below 5's to begin with. This will build your confidence, and will be less pressure, as the bar is not set so high.

There are quite a few posts on here based on AA.
Make sure you read them, and they will help you tremendously.

Good Luck!

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Try changing you're state, the higher you feel, the more confident and easier it will be to approach people. Walk like a hero and girls will approach you....
Research NLP
Take small steps, like Nike said, try it on with the fives, run you're game with them and watch how they react to your actions/words, this will help you build a routine and figure out your strengths and weaknesses and force you to become observant in body language.
Pretty much every time i meet now, i shake then pull them in for a hug or a double cheek kiss. This is totally socially acceptable but means the step to a kiss close is tiny but also reveals just how comfortable that person is around you. Learnt that little trick from my Italian friends