Natural game can sometimes be hard to explain, how do you explain someone how you are naturally good with girls?
I began to think harder about this, using a good thought mantra "I wonder when my natural ability started to develop?" and here is what I came up with.
Up until the age of about 15, I was bullied almost every day for my intellect and independence, I was quite a bright kid, able to converse well with adults, and I had my own opinion on everything, which I felt intimidated the "alpha" males at my school who wanted followers, not smarter competition.
But after being a library recluse, teaching myself HTML for fun, and realising that I still hadn't kissed a girl like most of my peers had, I wanted to change.
Being rather clever, I nailed the group dynamics of a bunch of guys like me and, using an old friend as a foot in the door, rose up to become a relatively well liked guy.
Then it came to the school socials, and weekend parties, where I started having interactions with girls, and I noticed how timid a lot of my friends were being, so I decided that if that wasn't working, you had to go bold. So I started taking action, and made everything up as I went along, pretended to know exactly what I was doing, as well as doing the exact opposite of what I saw my mates doing.
Using the momentum of my first ever kiss from my first ever girlfriend, I started getting better and better. My last senior years, after changing schools, allowed me to re-invent myself with this new knowledge, and in a very short time I developed a "bad-boy" reputation, which worked highly in my favour.
So to me, I think my natural confidence with women began when I wanted to make a change, and I noticed that guys were failing so I did the opposite, quite box-clever.
Some guys would have had similar experiences, some guys would have followed what their friends were doing. So I think it boils down to how independent you were growing up, and how badly you wanted to make that change. The fact that I wanted friends so badly helped in more ways than I thought possible, because I started exploring every potential avenue of possibility.
The same applies now, if you want to make the change, invest enough energy and time to justify to your mind, body, self and the universe that you want to make the change.
A Great video to get you inspired
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Be great to hear stories of other transformations, and if you're not sure? have a good think about it
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