i'll try to keep this short and sweet. basically this hb7 wont call me back. i can't figure out why and it's bugging the crap outta me.

i met her at a good friends wedding last week. we were introduced early in the evening at the reception. i gave some small talk and kept it short. after socializing with my friends at the party i started trying to make eye contact with her, and i did. she waved and smiled. GAME ON ! i let a few mins pass and i made my move . long story short, we sat and chatted the whole night off to the side with no interruptions. great convo and eye contact the whole time. eventually i was able to get her to initiate an exchange of numbers, and that we should go out. we were definitely vibeing one another and a few mins later she initiated the kiss. ok "awesome !" i say.. this one is in the bag. we end the night with another kiss and go our separate ways.
i text her the next day and tell her i had a great time. she responds back that she also had a great time. i wait 2 days and send her another non intrusive text , no response. 2 days later i call and leave a message ,no call back. today is day 3 from the last time i called, and i don't know how to play it. do i try one more call ? or do i say fuk it and move on since she's not showing interest? as well as we seemed to click i figured she would have tried to make an attempt to contacted me by now.
where did i go wrong? once again this one seemed like a no brainer to me , but no close...

~huggyB~

She might be having trouble getting in touch with you, she might have waited for you to act on the "we had a nice time" text too long (although I'd also expect her to have picked up) or she really just might not have had that much interest in you (a one time thing).

I'd leave it be. If she's interested, she'll call you back. Meanwhile, find another girl.

I agree about leaving it be, but I would also check in with her in a few months. Just a fluff text, just to ping her and see if she pings back. It could be "guess what." If she responds "what?" well, it's time to get things cooking again. If not, it was truly a one night thing.

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right on , pretty much what i was thinking . thanks for the reassurance and the advice.

~huggyB~

yeah, if you leave it be, you've got a chance in the future.

if you persist, you are creepy stalker.

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Who cares, ditch it and keep going out...maybe she'll text you out of the blue one day. At most send a text every month or so..nothign too much