Hello guys i recently come for studing here and i am little bit scared what i see. My english is ok but i havfe a big lack in making interesting conversation, my english is not anough to make jokes and stuff, its not even english its like i just dont know those jokes and cocky things to say, btw i am good in this in my own language, but its hard for me me to do in english. Soon i will start my study process in college i want to get ready in summer. Now i am going gym i need seom advices to practise. How i can develope those english speaking qualities fast ? I am good looking guy and everything else is ok except this thing which makes me really uncomfortable to talk to the ladies here.

Thank you everyone. You have a nice and big community here. Please help i like to talk to people but after getting to new country i found out its so hard now.... WIth my hello how are you and stuff... What the best way to know all those jokes and slang people using here. I am scared and dont like to be boring because i always used to be a leader in any group of people.

exactly as my situation..

How to deal with it bro

It's tough man. I've been there and I know how hard it is. All I can say is study as much as you can about American humor and the culture itself.
Practice English jokes with your friends or watch Family Guy!! (or any other comedy shows like Seinfeld or something) lol
Read "The Game" to give you an idea how to socialize. Honestly til now, it is still kinda my problem, but I am better than before for sure.

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guys any more advices and problems like that ?
it's kinda really hard to be social with a lack of language

First of all, a big part of Inner Game is self-improvement. You should always try to reach your full potential, so do your best to learn the language.

Secondly, not knowing the language is a great way to show your confidence. Don't "uuhhh" and "uhmmm" all the time, take your time to find the right words, make the girls help you out with the language and accuse them of directing it in sexual ways when you pretend to have had something completely different in mind.


And don't pick up too much on American humour. As funny as it may be at times, there is deffinitely much better stuff out there. And C&F is the best attraction building type.

Definitely work on the language, but one of the most alpha guys I know is German and speaks English very badly. Where are you from? Some accents work better than others.

What you can't tell her, you need to show her with body language and physical contact. If you're funny and cute with the language barrier, you can touch people to let them know you want to speak, if it takes you a second to get the words together. Instead of a compliment to a girl, give her a hug, and instead of a vocal push-pull, physically pull her in then push her away gently. Talk less, communicate more.

I am from russia. I dont really have an accent, but sometimes it's hard to be funny with my level of english, i can talk, when i am using my language i can be really funny and interesting person to talk with. But in english I can say regular things using easy words.

Thanks for your advices !