Hey guys

I'm in kind of a weird situation right now. I met this girl 2 weeks ago and we hit it off extremely well, we have so much fun together it is really unbelievable. So obviously I want this girl to be my gf.

The facts:

1. We really like each other
2. She slept over yesterday and we did everything except fuck.

Why didn't you fuck her dude she obviously wants it when she's sleeping over !? I'm glad you ask, she has a boyfriend who is a friend of mine. But we had some major kino like spooning, giving each other back rubs and basically we couldn't keep our hands of each other. Like every time I would turn she would immediately place her arm around me and rub my chest etc.

3. We kissed for about 5 minutes, not making out, just kissing. After our kiss she remained silent for a few minutes and said that she felt terrible for cheating. But when she was saying this she was still lying down here with her head on my chest whilst rubbing my chest.
4. She seems extremely interested, I'm 200% sure that if she didn't have her boyfriend we would be together. Even now she treats me like her bf without the sex. I mean she's really touchy, always doing kino whether it's stroking my hear, massasging or just basic kino like holding my hand or anything else. She always smiles at me and gives me the kiss me look but I didn't have the balls to go in a second time after she said she regretted it.
5. Things haven't gone awkward between us she says she loves me but wants to keep her bf


Advice guys? thanks

Dude . . This is just SO wrong!! She's your friends gf why would you do that to a friend?? Also she's obviously a shady bitch if she wanted to be in a relationship with you shed leave the current bf and do it

You are her bit on the side, nothing more . . Move on to better girls and pray your friend doesn't find out you betrayed him like that

He's not really my friend like you think he is. I know the guy and get along well with him. I would never take a girl from a real friend ever. About being her bit on the side, she can't leave me alone for 5 minutes without texting/calling me, we keep the sexual tension high, she often texts me twice when I forget to respond or whatever and she constantly tells me she doesn't want to lose me and loves me.

The game plan is to put her on her heels a bit, I'm fooling around with her a bit more and maybe it just happens naturally, if not I'm tellin her to choose me or lose me.

EDIT: Also her bf doesn't take care of her at all. He basically just uses her to fuck. Why settle for good if you can get better? Also I would like to add that I'm not after her just for a lay, I want this girl as gf.

Well IMO she sounds quite manipulative, telling you she loves you but won't break up with her bf? Just be sure you know what kind of girl your dealing with here before you get into a relationship . . Take a step back and analyse the situation without having your judgement clouded by how much you like her

As far as everything else goes you seem to know what your doing, make it clear it's either you or him without specifically saying it . . Girls hate ultimatums

That's a much better answer thank you. The problem is ... she knows I fuck around with a lot of different girls and she told me that she doesn't want to sacrifice her 9 month relationship for me because she thinks I'm just into her for a lay and because I can't have her. Like she saw me kcing chicks when she was at the same club as me, my cellphone didn't stop receiving texts from women etc so she knows I'm not exclusive and I think that's the only problem bothering her. I strongly believe that if she didn't know that side of me she would already left her bf.

Well, this is life and gets complicated once in a while... I don't think that anyone can be judged here. Like you said - her boyfriend is actually not that much of a friend for you, so fuck it, I would not take that as something immoral from your part. After all, it is your own happiness you seek, you're not a charity. It is the competition - in business, in sports and yes, in love - that drives people forward.

As for the girl, I wouldn't be very judgmental either. For what I know, she might be confused or even in love with you. She might be quite content in her current relationship and reluctant to make any snap decisions becase of a guy that has a long and colorful history of fucking everything that moves (high five, bro ).

I say go with your guts. If you like her and actually believe that it could work out, go for it. And don't worry about what people think. You need to make that decision for yourself.

Good lord what an awesome post hahaha ! I could see you and I having a lot of fun sarging jezus christ what an awesome state of mind and intelligence

Alright, thanx I would definitely go out sarging but... I don't see it coming unless you plan a trip to Prague, Czech Republic

Guys important we're meeting up for dinner tomorrow how do I take this. She said "Nothing can happen tho!" I read this as "You can certainly get me but please make sure that you don't else I will have to choose between bf and you"

1. Do I just be fun, outgoing and a bit romantic like I normally am
2. Do I tell her about what I want from her = choosing between me and him.
3. Do I tell her what she means to me, I know that this normally isn't the way to go if you want a girl but I feel like I need to give her enough comfort and love to make her end the 9 months of memories because I know for a fact that she isn't getting much love and comfort from him only sex.
4. .... ?

Thanks guys