So i started talking to a new HB8 sometime last week, met her at a party, saw her at a football game, nothing serious just light flirting. I didn't see her for about a week until yesterday at a pregame for our college's football game. i didn't even see her but she came up to me, tapped me on the shoulder and proceeded to tell me that i was in her business calc class and that i should sit with her on monday (OBVIOUS IOI). talked to her a little more and then went to do my own thing.

Turns out she ended up walking to the game with the same group as me. The thing that made this a bit wierd was that i was with one of my female best friends who i've been friends with since middle school (completely non sexual). The sitting situation ended up with hb8 on the end, me next to her, my friend next to me, and the rest of the gang further down (once again. she didnt bother sitting with her friends, IOI). The bad part about this was i was stuck bouncing between the conversation with the hb and my friend. Would she be jellous that my attention was basicly split betweeen her and another girl?

to make maters worse when we were leaving my female friend ended up coming home with me (non sexxual) but im sure it still looked bad, how do i recover?

You did the right thing. An alpha male always puts his loved ones which also includes close friends before chicks. The best thing would be to integrate them into one conversation like you ask them what was the craziest experience you guys ever had. Like this you won't have to talk to both of them. When she told you that "that i should sit with her on monday" you should have asked why. Why are you rewarding this girl so much she didn't even do anything to you. If you treat her good just because of her looks you'll lose confidence but she will gain. Also why would you reward her and give her attention before your female friend whom you know for a long time and is really the one that is deserved to be rewarded. You don't need to recover you did nothing wrong. You just need to fix few things up. Next time this girl asks you to sit with her you ask her in a polite way "why". Your not some needy guy that's available for the girls to use even if you are at least don't show it. Follow this and see success. Good luck!

-Amazing Art-

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Thanks! she'll prob end up finding me and sitting with me tomorrow because i told her where i usually sit but if she gets there before me i wont go out of my way to find her

You were right, i had nothing to recover from

Didn't notice when she walked into class because i was working on my computer but when i finally made eye contact she started beaming and hurried the rest of the the way over to me and plopped down in the seat next to me, didnt have much time to talk because class started almost immediately but while we were talking on the way out she couldnt take her eyes off me and was really flirty. i didn't bother getting a number because she added me on fb (and tagged me in a picture) last night so i figured a second form of contact info was redundant, should i have gotten a number anyway? not like i'm gonna have a problem getting it in the future i just though parting ways after class wasn't the right time, good move or bad?

Let me just outline that you did a good job. Most guys are so afraid to lose a girl that they shower her with all the attention but you didn't and was therefore successful. Yes you should have gotten her number because it will show her you interested in her somewhat. Even though it's good not to give to much attention to a girl you must at least show some signs that you are into her otherwise she'll give up. So just next time you see her get her number. After that call her and take her out somewhere preferably by night and use some light kino and move to heavier kino. She should be all yours after. If you have any questions feel free to ask here. Also update me on what happens I am interested to know.

- Amazing Art -

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**Finally updating**

Sorry i havent updated until now but i've been quite busy, here's what you missed. Wednesday she sat with me again but i was unable to # close due to the terrible timing of her room mate.

That day after classes a friend and i left his house to walk down to the liquor store and find the HB and her roomie knocking on the door next door. The house they were knocking on partys with the house i was at most every night and I'm quite sure they were looking for me, friday she even admitted that she thought i lived there. that day was my male friend as well as the first (female) friend's room mate's birthdays so we were going out to dinner with a group and partying at the houses after. but when i made attempts to invite hb and her roomie i could tell my friend was acting funny about it so i backed off, turns out there was drama there was drama between HB's roomie and Female friend's roomie that i didn't know about so im glad i backed down on that.

Thursday night i get a 1am "what are you doing" text from my female friend, i had taken the night off and gone to bed early so didn't reply till the AM, when i told female friend i had been sleeping she said "No problem, [hb's name] was asking about you and i told her i'd see what your doing." Win!

Friday we have class together again so i finally # close and told her i'd hit her up before the game on sat

Saturday is gameday, started partying around noon, bouncing between the two houses previously discussed, around 2 or 3 HB and female friend walk into the house im in and talkinng to a HB7 from my home town that came into town to see me. Quickly peel off that conversation and make my way over to freind and HB. "you didn't text me!" she said! I playfully told her i had been busy, she seemed to like that. talked to her for a while before she was dragged somewhere by friends
Texted her later that day asking when she was going to the stadium to which i got no responce until my phone died.

When i finally plugged it Sunday she had said "[my name]?" i replied with yeahduh! and she said she got to drunk and blacked out from 4-12pm within 2 or 3 textes i said ..."well since we barely got to see eachother yesterday we should hangout sometime this week" to which she said "i know, i couldn't stay in one place yesterday! definitely! well work on our plans in math"

math is in a few hours and i need date ideas, im prob just gonna end up doing somethign super low key like a study day.

Also i feel fucking crippled when im with this girl, do small AFC things that i NEVER do with most girls, but she intimidates me a little and it's not even because shes a 10 or anything, i just actually give a fuck for once (fucked the HB7 that came into town yesterday and even felt kind of bad about it), fight the oneitus?

Firstly, you are over thinking. She is showing interest in you, and you don't know how to deal with that.

So, the whole I've never been like this with other girls line is because other such girls haven't showed you this interest before and you don't know Jack Squat here.

So, listen and learn.

You have to have a stronger frame of mind. You like her? Good for you. But, you need to control the extent of your 'like'. She's not the ultimate goal of your life. Most probably, she is not even the girl who you'll end up marrying. So, what the hell are you giving her that much importance for?

So, she's sharp and beautiful and amazing blah blah.. the thing is that she's not the only one in the whole world with these character traits, and she's not the best of them either.

Don't make a big deal of her actions.

Don't give her more importance than necessary.

Don't over-think about your words.

Just do what you have to do. Be your usual self, and say your usual things. It'll be fine.

Good luck.

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