So Ive got a date coming up with this girl I recently met. I've chilled with her a couple other times in the past but it was with other people and casual. This will be the first one-on-one time with her and I am going to take her to this restaurant/wine bar/music venue. Anyways, we've been texting a lot and she's asked me a couple times if I want to spend the night at her place after the date. The first time I played it off to not sound too interested/needy and said "lets see where the night takes us". But the second time she asks I agreed that id spend the night. Havent even kissed this girl yet.

So how should this affect my game on the first date? I was planning on taking it slow(ish) and easing up the Kino scale over the night. But now I feel like I need to be more forward from the start.

Any advice?

So is the reason that no one responded because the answer is pretty obvious? I mean if the girls already asking me to spend the night then I should be all over her, cause shes obviously into me.

you did a good job.

Just keep the frame "This is gonna happen", lay back and enjoy, let her talk and take the lead when you feel you should step up.

this girl likes you, you don't have to do anything special. you just need to not fuck it up.

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The ball is in your court. Just be chilled with it have a good night and ensure the finish remains the way that she is suggesting. All you have to do is show up.