Basically, my girlfriend of 3 months was about to suck my dick in the car 2 days ago but she felt a bump on the side of my dick and was like "what is that? " I said "idk"

Long story short, she was at my house last night and we were making out and she would be horny then she would just stop, she did this twice an finally came out and said "I'm sorry, I love you. It just scared me wen I felt that bump the other day" and i said " babe, we've been fuckin for three months, if i had something, you would have it." she's like " I kno I kno, I'm jus scared" so I just followed up with a difference and went to sleep, telling her not to touch me with my body language.

I went to the doctor and it's just a cyst, most guys get them, women get them too.

My question is, how do I defuse this situation? It's of course going to be uncomfy the next time we get ready to have sex. How should I Handel this? To make her comfterable with the whole thing?

No immature answers, I'm serious about this. It can ruin our relationship

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Get a copy of the Doctor's report and get him to write something on an official record that states it is a noninfectious cyst (assuming it actually is noninfectious)

Then get it removed.

Its gone away already, it just a tiny puss filled bump. It's really common in both men and women. I've been getting about 1-2 a year since I was a lil kid. Way before sex

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this is an easy one.

be totally honest with her.

tell her that her health and mental well-being were so important to you, that you went to the doctor and got checked, show her the report, and ask for a really big hug!

once she gives you the hug, squeeze her ass to start sexual frame, go out on the town, come back, and bang like wild chimpanzees.

easy and hell.

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