Hey guys, I really need help on my INNER game, i feel that my outer is game with girls is good, like my body language, tonality kino etc is fine.

However i need help with issues on my Inner game, like i feel that i don't want to approach because i feel she may be hotter than me or I'm not good enough and I freak out... Like before the game I use to be really really shy in high school, and only becoming more social in college.

Like I'm pretty good looking, girls calling me cute, i dress pretty well but i feel that I'm just not good enough for girls i talk to and thats REALLY fucking up my game when i approach girls. I feel that I'm being judged for what I look like and never feel that girls should be chasing me or like I'm the prize...and thats really hurting my confidence and self esteem.

I really appreciate if you guys can give me some advice or even recommened me some videos to watch to fix my inner game and self confidence.

Thanks guys!!

You say that your outer game is solid. Cool. But what girls are you approaching and speaking with? If you're only approaching girls who you feel aren't as good as the ones you would like to, then you are sub-consciously sending yourself a message that you aren't good enough for those better girls.

Fill us in a little more on your habits and history of being shy. I used to be extremely shy, but let me tell you that you can reinvent yourself however you want to be, while remaining true to who you are. Just let us know a little more about YOU (essential to inner game), such as 'Did you have any girlfriends even then?'

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

Hey Prince thanks for helping me out.
Ya i used to be really shy in high school because i thought people were judging me and shit, i only had 1 girl friend in high school but since ive gotten into the game, no serious girlfriends just flings.

Like i think the MAIN reason why im being shy is cause i feel that Im being judged and like i think like " o fuck my hair is shit, o fuck im not good looking today" shit like that. LIke in general im pretty funny, outgoing loud kind of guy.
Thanks

Ok, I got my Inner Game up from a much different source than most of you guys probably. It's from a guy's book, who used to be into routines and techniques, then he switched to 100% Inner Game and 0% Outer Game material. It all just came out naturally. Cool thing about this guy is his Inner Game has great effect on life in general, not just girls.


The main concept in his book is about the male nature as the main tool for attraction. Women are attracted to our male traits. And true alfas pursue their goals and adapt their environment to their mindset, they don't try to adjust. Moreover, they care about big things, so hair is deffo not one of them. Do take care of yourself, as this is self-improvement and self-respect, but don't agonize if you don't feel perfect. This should just be reminding you, that you still have to climb the ladder and should make you feel positive, that you have the chance to. And don't worry about looks when you're with others, make people who are greatly interested by the outside instead of the inside to validate themselves to you and be a bitch about it. You don't like that fact, so show it openly and don't let people get away with it. Surprisingly, if you are persistent enough, most people will eventually try to adapt to you.

watch rsd videos on youtube

Well, what's the book and who is it by?
Of course. And to be honest, that's never going to go away. You're always going to be thinking "My hair should look better" or "I wish my clothes looked nicer/cleaner/etc." But as you progress into the game, you'll realize that none of that matters so much. Obviously if you don't look clean, and like you don't take care of yourself, a girl is not going to be attracted. But that's rarely the problem guys have when they're thinking these things. The guys who think they should look better ave already put some effort into their appearance to look presentable at the very least.

What really matters is your self-confidence. Do you really want a girl who is going to like you or dislike you because of how you look on a single day? Wouldn't you be looking for a girl who is interested in you and/or your game?

I say you or your game, because beyond the warm bubbly feelings of a girl liking you because of some innate desire, there is also the feeling of pride you get when you realize that all of this is because you have worked hard on your game, and have succeeded, which I feel is about as good of a motivation as any, the same as how you take pride in getting a promotion because of hard work.

So the bottom line is: Does it matter how people judge you? No. Some people are going to like you right off the bat, others dislike you. Often this will never be because of something you've done. And why do the hard work to try and force someone who doesn't like you to like you. Not worth it, when right around the corner are people who do like you. Game is for those on the fence. It's a way to express your true self. Anyone who is judging you before they get to know you truly are isn't a person you want to be hanging around with anyways, because they will just drain your energy and cause problems.

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"