ok so the thing is: I've got a girl on my friend list that I've partied with 2 times before. Both times we were kissing and stuff, but I really don't know her other than that.

It's been like 4 months since we hooked up last time and now I really want to get her interest again.
At that time earlier I didnt really care, but now I do! So what im wondering is how am I going to approach her?

I see facebook as the easiest way to start talking to her, and I hope you guys could give me some tips about how to get started..
All comments appreciated!

facebook through my experience didn't work to well in the same type of situation you are in, but that was really down to what i sent.

Although a good way in my opinion you can use to get the chat rolling on facebook is to see her when you are out with a couple of friends (even if she doesn't see u) then u can open on facebook with something like " hey i seen u in town the other day and i realized that i have talked to u in months" but you get change it up a bit, maybe add some humor into the comment

hope this helps

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I would not write "I saw you the other day in the center..." I feel it sends the idea that you didn't have the guts to talk to her. How old is she btw ?

I would go chat her when she is online, and make a funny reference to the party. Something such as : "Wow, it's been about 4 months we didn't talk ! You must almost dance as good as me now " (if you negged her a little about her dancing previously for instance). It's not that a big deal what you say to engage conversation, as long as it's playful !

Finally, even if you do care about her, don't show it too much/too early, it's an attraction killer. Act like you choose the girls and not the other way around.

funny message + a huge neg and you will do fine....

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FUCK HER! You didn't close, NEXT! or untill you physically see her next.

this has worked for me in the past: say something like 'hi ' or 'hey stranger' on facebook chat, ask her what shes been up to and when she asks you, say you're a bit bored and you thought you'd start a conversation with someone different and interesting


she'll take it as a compliment and you can pretty much do anything from here arrange meet ups phone calls etc

goodluck!

thx guys, this really helps acutally :P What ur saying sounds good, and it makes me think more creative on making an "opener" in this case!
Keep posting

oh, and she is 1 year younger than me, which normally should make things easier...
How does this sound to u guys (I know it isnt anything special, but still):
-Hi :)
-how are u doing? what have u been up to lately?
she says hi and hopefully tells me a few things + asks the same back at me
- Then Ill answer with something funny, which she hopefully catches, and tells the stuff about that I was bored and saw her online, and just thought I could hi since I havent really spoken to her in a long time.. And then im up running!

is there anything about this that is dramatically wrong?
feedback greatly appreciated guys!

^This^ FTW

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