*This post probably belongs in "sticking points", but as more people read this I thought i'd shove it here*

I don't know what my problem is, but nowadays whenever I meet a girl, or talk to a girl, all I want to do is get her clothes off at the earliest opportunity.

Now, most of you reading this will be sat here thinking "well, duh, obviously!" but what I'm saying is, I can't be bothered to go on "dates" or day 2's with girls to build rapport and work up towards it, I just want the sex ASAP.

I'm not a virgin, i'm in double figures, although i'm not as vastly experiences as some, so it's not sexual frustration I don't think.

The problem is I think it's affecting my game, and making me come across as slightly sleasy. Recently i've been meeting up with girls for drinks, and most of which I already know i'm in the friend-zone with for various reasons (eg they dated my mate, or they're still hooked on their ex) and I just have no desire to continue the conversation or even DHV myself as I know it's pointless and i'm not going to achieve my goal.

Just wondered if anyone is the same and if so, what I can do about it!

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Go out with higher quality women that aren't as likey to put out so fast. Sounds like your dealing with some shitty women if you don't find the interesting enough to hang out with them

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I agree with what Fuze said. It appears that you are only interested in this goal of having sex as quickly as possible, and it's quite likely that the energy you're putting out towards that goal is scaring off women. Nothing wrong with being forward, but I have a feeling that's not exactly what it is.

Perhaps that doesn't seem to make sense, but the point is that you can have female friends, beyond sex, who can help you in ways beyond satisfying some sexual need. Look for higher class/worth women who can bring more to the table than sex.

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