I invited a girl over for a "movie" (she suggested a couple of times sex indirectly) at my place on Saturday but the problem is I've never done this before. I would like to ask for some do's and don't's, how should things escalate towards sex, pretty much basic stuff. Alcohol or not ? What kind of kino ? Etc.

Thank you.

dnt automatically poor boozes into her, leave them on display if she wants some she will ask, and if she does go for drink its a good sign BUT DONT GET DRUNK !!!! thats jst taking advantage...

let her sit down first and sit away from so other side of the sofa etc...if she starts wondering around the room before she sits down, ...You sit down first dnt wait for her and see where she sits if she doesnt sit next to u giv it a few minates into the movie and tell her to come here, and if she says no just go ok, and watch the movie dnt look at her dnt talk to her nothing...untill she tries to talk to u, and make a joke "sorry cant hear u way over there:P " she will come to u with a laugh...

keep the movie volume low and talk a little just lite SLOW! conversation... as if yr in a room full of people but she is the only one u want to hear but dnt turn and look at her stay looking at the screen at most look at her a few times while she responds...(talk bout anything learn some DHV spikes and a few little negs!!!)

then get in close faceing there sorter half a foot apart, face to face and run a few trusts test with her (say yr in my house i gotta trust u my rules:P ) if she refuses turn away again and move away a little back to face TV, when she trys to talk....go back to the trust test saying (still dnt no if i can trust u) move her hands around make her copy u play the "mirror game" and then take her hands put them on yr shoulders take yr hands put them on her waist, and say ( ok i can trust u i no u wont bite ) laugh tilt yr head learn in 95% of the way and she will /should move the other 5% ...after the first kiss go that wasnt a kiss yr rubbish laughing and move away again she WILL CHASE YOU....

then turn and say (ok show me good kissing ) and kiss again... and then ta,da enjoy yr night, give it sorta 10 to 15 minates or kissing before u stand up take her hand DONT TALK and move to the bedroom ....if she hesitates jst pause look her in the eye and say ( no assumptions dnt get yr hopes up and laugh a little ;P )...

good luck enjoy yr night lol

much love x

I wouldn't do it the way the guy above suggested..

Look dude, just stay calm and chill.. Alcohol will ease the mood and make things a little eaiser but it's not necessary.

Once she comes in the house.. Give her a warm hug(must).. And then show her all around the place that way she feels comfy. Ask her to help you out with stuff.

For example: after your show her around, take her in the kitchen and begin making some finger foods or whatever and tell her " the DVD players right over there, turn in the tv and put in the DVD for me" this raises her level of compliance.. That way wen you suggest drinking she will be a more receptive.

Don't wait to see where she sits.. You sit first and tap the seat right next to you for her to sit in. She may be nervous so don't leave it up to her. While seated say " I'm bout to get a beer.. Want one?"

Once she's agrees to the beer the rest is a childs play.. After a few beers go for the make out and you got the rest

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this is a better way of doing things, ill admit but this guy is a bigger and this sorta game takes alot of confidence in yr talking in your moving and doesnt leave much room for error, where as the options ive gave covers and recovers from mistake that could be made, e.g. moving to fast, confusing her head, or breaking her comfort....