Alright, right now I'm in high school, I met this girl at the beginning of last year, and we didn't really talk much, just the occasional "hey" kind of conversations. So over the summer, I texted her every so often at first, and I started to text her more and more, and it went great. I can honestly say I have great texting game. We joked around for hours, brought up sexual stuff almost constantly. But when I got back to school, she wasn't in any of my classes, and we barely saw each other. The first time we really talked, I think I kind of ruined it because my "in-person game" (or whatever the hell you call it) isn't that good. We made small talk, and only talked a few other times. After that I really didn't talk to her much.

Should I try to talk to her again, or just forget about her?

What's the worst that can happen if you try her again?

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"

You problem is that behave differently when it comes to different means of communication, which frankly I find stupid because regardless of the mode, you are the same guy all the time.

So, why not the same behavior?

Stop having different mindsets for different games, as you say, and just focus on consistency in all formats. You will be fine.

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" You're born alone and you die alone and this world just drops a bunch of rules on top of you to make you forget those facts. But I never forget. I'm living like there's no tomorrow, because there isn't one. "

Good call, Don. And I think the difference, Envying, is that you don't feel as exposed to the person when they can't see you. You can hide behind the computer screen so to speak. But when you aren't concerned with what they think of you (hiding behind the texting wall), you have full confidence in yourself. To put what Don was saying in other words, you need to realize that you're the same person however you communicate with them, and you should have the same confidence in yourself either way. And why not? If you have good game in text, and you believe in your game, you'll have great game in person, too.

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Jazzy Jeff: "My love for you is like a river,
Like a summer breeze that makes my soul shiver,
One look from you is more precious than gold,
Let's grab some BBQ and go get busy!"