So met this girl at a party. Her friend pointed at her saying she thinks your cute and to add her on fb. I didnt get a chance to talk to the girl that night but next morning she added me on fb. I stated talking to her and she tells me that she has a boyfriend...thanks to what i have learned from here.. i play it cool

Me: Do you go to clubs?

Her: yeahh i do sometimes
but i have a boyfriendd now & he tripss

Me: Thats good...he must really care about you then...­­


Her: yeahh i hope so


Me:hope so? you should know so...be more confident about that haha how long have you been going out with the poor guy ­­


Her: poor guy! lmao & only for a couple of weeks


Me: i am impressed by the dude..couple of weeks and already got you in control­­


Her: haha noo!!it justs thatt he trusts me alot so i wouldnt wanna put myself in situations where i might cheatt u know

Me: oh so you do cheat haha­­

Her: noooooo
ive never cheated


Me: the secret behind every successful relationship is cheating ­­


Her: says youu?


Me:says some genius....i dont cheat either but there must be somehting good about it if so many people do it haha ­­

Her: do u have a gf?


Me: not currently...­­

position is open...id ask you to apply for it but i dont think you qualify ­­


Her: haha cutee! id be happy to apply but i think i know whyy i donttt qualifyy


Me: what do you think the reason is?­­


Her: i havee a bf


Me: and I have a wife with two kids...boyfriends come and go ­­


Her: && youll be diff?


Me: think what you want to think...i dont need to explain...im not the one applying for the position here am i hahah­­


Her: hahaahaaa! ooooookay

sooo i think i should wat im signing up for




Me: well thats true....you should always know what your signing up for...get to know me then! you can be an intern ­­

Her: haha oh ok! sounds fun


Me: haha well thats a start...anyways i g2g get ready­­

give your number and and i will text you the qualificatins ­­

We texted that night...next day i told her to come to a party with me but she said she had plans
So what should i do? She seems interested... i was thinking of calling her in couple of days and get her to come out with me...do you guys think she is interested?

thats flake one, IMO you need to consider were you are in your life, do you allready have alot of girls on the go? or is this one girl with a BF important to you?, so far you have one flake, i would wait a day or two then re-ping for text, just have a neutral convo, don't put her BF on her mind, seed that you are doing something fun, don't invite her, then tell her you are going to call her the next day at a specific time, just be like hey im going to call you tommorow at 0507 pm sharp, when you answer remember to say that you were waiting all day for my call or you will lose some points, maintain your dominant frame, when she tries to give you shit about the points, just shut her down, the next day call, if she doesn't answer, she is not interested, if she answers and tells you she was waiting she was interested, set up a meet over phone, but get her to a high point first, try to make her laugh or something then cut off the call after, then day of meet re-ping, and double check that she won't flake before hand, if your getting the feeling she is going to flake, you flake 1st and then freeze her out for two weeks,

now back to if she answers phone but does not say she was waiting, you tell her she lost points your disapointed, seed something fun to do but don't invite her, get her to high point then cut off convo because you have to go do something cool, tell her you will call her later (don't need to be too specific this time), then you will try again some other time, 2 flakes consitutes dis-interest i would just drop her and move on, maybe ping her every 2 weeks+

You just about stumbled on Harmless's BF destroyer routine by accident, she is a flake however and I think you lost your opportunity. Next time, try this.

bf-destroyer-vt100508.html

Thanks for the great responses guys...BF destroyer seems very helpful.

Pumpington- I do not have too many girls to fall back on however she is not somebody i am going crazy over. However as i know this girl thinks i am cute and was interested in me despite having a bf...i think it is worth it to try! What i was planning on doing was to call her 2 days later and tell her to come out with me but now that you mentioned it...i think i will go with your plan..I will text her tomorrow and just hold a normal fun convo...telll i will call her the next day and hopefully get a date with her for this weekend.

Well done sir, you got tight game well done, good display of text game, my advise keep doing what you are doing...She is not a good prospect since she has a boyfriend, so you got a wait for a window of opportunity to jump in, i particularly do not like to game girls with boyfriends..

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Thanks...i usually avoid bf situation as i dont want to cause another person any pain as i wouldnt want that done to me but they have been only going out for couple of weeks...and she intiated it so why hold...lets see what happens tommorrow...wish me luck haha

Well, game her normally.

Don't let the fact that she has a boyfriend affect you to an extent that it debilitates your game.

Have fun with her and focus on building attraction with her. Relentlessly build attraction with her, 'cause if you can get her more attracted to you than she is to her so-called boyfriend, she will kick the guy to the kerb ,for a chance with you.

Good luck.

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I think i might have fucked up...

here it goes:

Me: Hows the gorgeous intern doing?

Her: tired from school ://

Me: Same here...let just quit school and move to hawaii...you can be a dancer while i will sell coconuts lol

Her: i wanna sell drugs and u can dance

Me: Will you get the drugs from your dad? id rather see you dance though....not sure if you will look as great as me though

Her: Haha my dad doesnt sell drugs & maybe if ur lucky

Me: way to mess up my cheesy pickup line haha i know im lucky

Her: pshhh says who?

Me: Well i am a confident guy and your a pretty girl whose not gonna let me down lol

Her: im sure you say that to every girl

Me: Why would u say that?

Her: Cuz im not stupid

Me:You can think what u want to but you shouldnt label somebody without knwoing them

Her: Lol ok

Me: Btw this was only my 4th time using that line today haha jk

I know i should have ended the convo earlier but i wanted to escalate a little more before ending it....how should have i responded when she accused me of saying that to evey girl? I will still go ahead and call her tommorrow and try to get her to come out with me... Any and all feedback is appreciated !

no, you have a tight game, keep doing what you are doing, excellent display of text game, very good.........The problem is, i think girls with boyfriend is a lot more work you could spending with other women that are single, bad karma, drama, you got a game them to leave the boyfriend, or to cheat on the boyfriend, is too complex, my opinion a waste of time, if she has a boyfriend, my attitude is i am here i would hang out with you and do you, but i ain't gonna waste my time, let me know when you are ready...Specially in your case when she told you already that she has a boyfriend...

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Hey

If she doesn't want to meet you 1 on 1 maybe you can take her out with other people, like a bunch of you going to play bowling or something, so she doesn't feel she is cheating but then game her all the way during the "group date".

Thanks man!! But good sign...randomly at night i get a message from her on fb asking how i know this certain girl lol....at the end i told her " im going out so ill catch you later " to which she replies " no you will not" then i said " you can catch me later" to which she replied " I shall not " .... Was this like a mini shit test or something....i just didnt reply back so I could maintain the authority... I will call her again tomorrow and yea thats a good idea...if i cant get her to come out alone....ill tell her to bring firneds..thanks!

Update:

So i called her today and she didnt pick up...she texts 1 hr later or so

Her: Did you call?

Me: yea lol ill call u again in 30 mins...make sure you pick up

Her: im with my bf

Me: oh that sucks for you...text me your done and home

she texts me 30 mins later : im home

Anyways so i call her lol i ask her how her date was...i think me being so careless about her having a boyfriend attracts her anyways i ask her what she is doing tomorrow and she says that she is hanging out with her bf but i tell that no your hanging out with me tomorrow...to which she replies ummm what are we going to do and i tell her that it will be a surprise she will have to find out tomorrow and she says ok...i tell her ok be ready by 7:30 -8 to which she replies i haven't said yes yet...i said you will....to which she replies i will see and i end the convo by saying see you tomorrow to which replies ok see you and then quickly corrects her self saying ill see lol and i end the convo by saying bye....

what do you yall think...is this happening or will she flake?

I vote flake, but who knows... I do not like it bro, she has a man...but whatever, she is flirting hardcore...

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skills i know what your saying bro...i think she might flake also and i know that is not the best thing to do but hey of she is willing to cheat on her boyfriend than they dont have that strong of a relationship anyways and she initiated it...added me on fb and all that so why should i back away if she has a boyfriend you know...appreciate all the advice gentlemen....hopefully she will not flake today! will keep you posted!

yes, me and you are saying the same thing...

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