I see so many girls that are so beautiful around campus walking around. I tried just going up and talking to them but its weird and creepy to me and I feel like Im lowering myself when I do that (my dignity). I dont know if its just not in my personality to do it or just being really weird when I talk to them but its not working out.
Plus, most of them are walking super fast with somewhere they need to go.
I had small success at the pool. I talked to a few girls, asked for their names, added one on Facebook, but she ignored my request.
Other than that, its like the same as last year smh. The only activity I see girls is going to my classes. And I dont see too many beautiful girls. If I do, they are swarmed with friends or other people sitting next to them.
I tried being outgoing and talking to girls and people but I guess its either because of the way I do it or the fact that I just feel like this is NOT me. Example:
Tried sitting next to a girl. (At this point I was like this is weird, she probably knows I like her, I mad it so obvious by sitting next to her like I did) and then I tried starting a conversation like 'Are you ready for this class?' and she gave me brief curt replies like 'we dont really have a choice do we?' and was just giving me really negative, disgusted facial expressions to which i finally got angry and offended and ignored her.
I guess it may stem from the fact I think Im low value, nerdy, clumsy, dorky, weird. I tried dressing up, keeping clean, wearing contacts but no matter what I still feel like this cause its who I am. And its weird going up to girls this way, Im just not a outgoing playboy or whatever.
Honestly, I just want to meet some attractive girls that will acknowledge me as a friend and not give me a disgusted looks. I dont want to be a flirt or playboy or whatever. Never been kissed,,,

I went online looking at clubs to join. I went to a christian club but it was small as heck with no girls in it. I went to several a capella group audition but realized i need to put in a lot of time into this and theres only like 1-2 fairly attractive girls in each that may not like me. Its hard to find a club where it doesnt seem like I dont have to put in a bunch of time. And I went through the list multiple times and nothign really caught my eye at all. I even thought about joining frats but I am not a frat jock outgoing guy at all and I feel itd be very time consuming and maybe not even worth it since Ill probably be around people that arent like me (beer drinking partiers). I am a smart individual who wants friends that can hold a conversation about something other than alcohol.

I know some guys interact with hundreds of girls every day and I just dont know how thats possible. My day is basically go to classes, go to work, go to clubs, interact with a very scarce few girls on an objective level in each.

Please help. I read the college thread sticky already...

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Just trying to meet a 10.

I hear you my friend. I'm starting off a new semester at a new university and I'm feeling the same pressure. Look, I'm going to be our guinea pig and try these girls out. I'll report back to you what works.

ok you better dont break your promise

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Just trying to meet a 10.

Ok, 1st I have to say thank you because through your question I now now what my real sticking point is. Which is keeping the convo going with more than small talk.

But anyway, this is our prime time my friend. College girls are nicer then what I've encountered in life. They give you the time and are polite. I set a goal of going up to 5 of my female peers. No opener is really needed just a 'hey' or comment on what they are doing. For example one girl was putting on her headphones and I asked, "Are you listening to the new Lil Wayne CD?" This started a convo on music and slowly faded into platonic like talk, lame. I don't have classes again until Monday.

I am kinda working on/experimenting with the HB in my class, which is commenting on what she's doing at that time, or how are her scores. Then I ignore her ass and talk to someone else. She eventually joins the convo I'm having, we have our own convo but it wanes into weak boring convo.

So there you have it, my conclusion is just talk to all of them. And have something interesting to keep it going.

Same boat..sort of..but college girls seem pretty open to talk and aren't gonna be creeped out unless you act weird

I'm a senior in high school, but here's my take, basing it off my experience with classmates.

Open every opportunity you have to make a casual opener. Every single time. Even if it seems like it won't go anywhere. Waiting in line to get food and she gets a blueberry muffin? "Oh my god that looks awesome!! I was planning on getting __ but I'm getting a muffin now!" or just "Oh are those good? I haven't tried them yet"
If she's walking by and you like her scarf or something. "Excuse me, I like your scarf, really chic." Even if she says thank you and keeps walking, that's fine! You opened and it's important to feel ready to talk to anyone at any time (and if you ever meet her for real, she might remember you as an outgoing guy).

As far as your opinion on clubs goes, suck it up and join some. Do something with your life, learn a skill. A capella could be such an attractive hobby to have. Work hard on yourself. Everything you do, work hard and work to improve your skill at it. If you do that, the work ethic will carry over into pick up and your life in general. Invest your time in improving yourself.

Continuing on the club theme, join TONS, even ones you're barely interested in. Give each a 2 week trial period and drop it if you don't like it, but if you decide you don't like any of them, or you aren't getting along with the people, you're just going through the motions, and that won't get you anywhere.

There's probably a bunch more to write, but I'll start you on that. Read The Power of Now to work on your outlook on life and general social skills. Read self help books, books on body language, anything that is remotely related to game. If you can genuinely include these into your personal belief system, you will gain so many topics to talk about.

I just started my first year of university and I am not pickup artist or anything but I find it pretty darn easy to open around these parts.

What I do is I always go to the caf at dinner time alone and there is an area where people who are there alone can sit. I simply just sit down there and talk to whoever happens to be there. Got a few numbers from this already.

Small talk is always how you start off and then you transition into something else there is so much to say it is real easy such as:
- where you from?
- what are you majoring? why did you choose it?
- how do you like college life?
- did you sign up for any clubs?
- have you been to any crazy parties yet?
- how'd you like so and so event?

the possibilities are nearly endless to be honest all you have to do is stray the conversation from the intial opener and pretty much anyone is open to talk. This is the beginning of the year and people are the most open now as everyone is looking for new friends! So be sure to put yourself out there.