Last Labor Day, I met an HB8 at a bar..

I was really drunk and started a small 5 minute convo. She liked me. We talked for about 5 minutes and then she told me she had to leave because she had work the next day. I didn't have time to keno or even get into a deep convo.

Two days later, i decided to text her.

here is the dialog:
Me:
Hey wattsup. This is seif from djais. Guy with the red lacoste shirt. How was your night!?!

Her: Hey hun.. sorry I was at the gym when you texted me. My night was good. how was yours.

Me: It was beter than i expected it to be. Got sick so I was in bed all day.lol. U got work tomorrow.

HEr: Oh that sucks. how you feeling now? I actually have class tomorrow. Are you going to work?

Me: Ya, I think it has alot to do with the rain. I just have a slight headache. which isin't helpin out much with me movin stuff out of my shorehouse. I dont have work because i start a new job in october. Where do you go to school.

Her: Dam feel terrible. Where are you gonna work in october!? I go to william patterson. I'm going for k-5 special education.

Me: What year are you. I graduate rutgers 08. I am still looking for IT jobs in the ity. But the job i have offered to me in october is in trenton. I have been livin overseas for 2 years and just came back home about a month ago so i am still trying to get my life together. well anyways, i g2g for a drive now, so i will ttyl!!..


This was our first dialog. I didn't invite her out yet because i didn't really escalate anything yet so it would be pointless. I don't know whats the next step should be. This convo was yesterday, and the weekend is in 2 days. How can I go about inviting her for a day 2?!? I have been out of the game for a while as I have been deployed overseas..

Should have kino'd a lot in those 5 minutes. Shouldn't have identified yourself by your shirt. Talk less about yourself and connect on her answers more, try to understand what things like "k-5 special education" say about her and her personality and comment on them.

Invite her out whenever, best option is to invite her to a bar similar to the one you met her at. She'll be most likely to come in such a low-risk environment.