Hi there guys,

This will be my first post on the forum, and I hope I'm doing it right!
Sorry for the long wall of text, summary at the bottom!

I will start off by describing the situation:

Last saturday I went to a festival with some friends and had a lot of fun, met some girls, etc. etc. (I didn't know about this PUA stuff, I only found out about this yesterday, and I was working with "natural game" I think you call it?)
So I saw this girl (from this point: Shorty (she was very small )) with 3 friends, went straight up to her, started talking with her (yes, amateur I know now ) and things went pretty good. My friend was a good wing and talked with the other girls. After a few minutes I grabbed her phone number (something like 'im gonna go find my friends, gimme your nmbr and we can meet up later today') and a few minutes later (I knew she was attracted to me after she gave me the number) I went in for the kiss. She turned her cheek and I don't really remember what she said, but It's not important. It really didn't bother me at all, because I knew she was attracted to me so I figured there must be something else. So I left and didn't do anything with the number, just went after some other girls with more succes.

Anyway, later that night, someone came up to me and it was Shorty that turned the cheek on me earlier. Me and my friends were walking towards one of the stages and she walked along with me (with her friends a little up ahead) and she asked me if I remembered her name. I forgot what her name was and she was a little insulted, then told me her name again and I said 'oh yea I remember now'. Then I reminded her that she dissed me pretty hard earlier, and she said something like maybe you should try again. So I pushed her up against the wall and we made out for a bit untill my mates passed by and we moved on to the stage.

She followed her friends and I followed mine, so we split up again. I was out to talk with some more girls, when I run into her by accident again. We end up spending like 1,5 hours talking and making out (alot) and she asked me like 10x if I would call her to go out on a date some time. I said yes and told her I don't like 'regular' dates like movies/dinner/drink so that we would do something original. She agreed and came up with some ideas like going to a shooting range and stuff.

So after this 1,5 hour, me and my friend leave to go to an afterparty, and we wait in line to get off the festival area. We wait there for about 5 minutes, and Shorty appears behind us in line. I got a text from one of the other girls I made out with that day, asking me if I was doing anything that night. I replied something like 'yea sure we can go for an afterparty', but did not see Shorty was watching me write the text to the other girl. The text itself was pretty harmless, nothing flirty or sexual, but the name I put in my phone was 'Sara very nice' (as in good looking), and Shorty mustve seen it. When I was done texting I looked at her and she gave me this venomous look, and I told her it was just a friend. She was silent for like 10 seconds, and then she kissed me some more.

So about an hour after we said goodbye to eachother she texted me asking how the afterparty was, and I replied i didnt go to an afterparty. She didnt reply after that.

I decided not to text/call on sunday. So monday, I called her to ask how things were and stuff, but I got her voicemail. About an hour later she texted that she was at practise n stuff. So we had a little smalltalk for about 10-15 minutes and she went to sleep. The next day (yesterday) I texted her and we basically agreed to go on an original date. I told her I would sleep on it to get an original idea.

So today, I came up with an idea for a date, but I don't want to come across as needy. I initiated the texting twice now (monday and yesterday), and I'm not sure if I should send her a text tonight, or wait for her to text me.

What would you do?


Summary:
Made out with a girl on a festival. Texted her on monday and tuesday. Agreed to go on a date. In order to not come across needy, do I wait for her to text me, or should I initiate texting again (3rd time) to set a date and tell her what we will be doing?


Thanks in advance!

Hi friend,

according to David Dangelo, the two biggest put offs for a girl are being insecure and needy-

game other women, get a few more numbers in your phone before you even try to re initiate.

Don´t take it too bad but women flake.... even the most solid numbers can flaks sometimes so don´t take it personally- move on- get more numbers.

When you have some numbers in your phone then try to get in touch with her because then you know that even if she doesn´t pick up the phone or reply- you still have more ladies to call. OK?

Good luck bro,

Hey mate,

Thanks for the advice. I actually am dating 3 ladies (including this one) at the moment , so the decision to wait for her to initiate worked .

Cheers!