so i met this girl through a friend that i hooked up with about a year ago. I'm 26, she's 20, and the first couple of nights we met, I spoke to her for just 2-5 minutes. Recently she broke up with her boyfriend, and i have been chatting with her by fb, messaging and phone.

So we've been out twice, the first time we went out it was super fun and we fooled around a bit, the second time was a bit more level.

Anwyay, i'm finding something quite strange - whenever I play some game, I seem to be left stranded and confused, but whenever I make an aFC move (like calling her early and just getting her to come out, chat within a couple of days), I seem to get a good response. though, it is alwys me who is initiating the conversation - never phone call,message or text from her

She has had a couple of boyfriends beforeso she could be hiding she is a bit of a player, and she is asian - not sure if that will affect anything).

So anyway, a few days ago, i called her and got the call rejected, and messaged and had a pretty bland response to it - nothing you could really build on 9or i couldnt anyway). So i've decided to leave it for a few days.

seems like aone-itis move, but what should be next - should I be the first to call again, or should i leave her for a couple of weeks. to be honest, this is the first girl ive actually liked in a while so help would be appreciated.

So, any advice? If your advice is 'find someone else' im already doing that, i'd just like a useful response to this specific situation.

Thanks!